Thursday, January 4, 2007

Exporting Creativity, Not Just Labour

I'm writing this from Jakarta where I am visiting my in-laws for the holidays. It hasn't been a good week in Indonesia what with a ship that sank in high seas and 400 people still missing, then the AdamAir crash on New Year's Day.Plus ongoing floods in Aceh, which hasn't fully recovered from the tsunami, and the horrible horrible mud flood engulfing villages in Sidoardjo, East Java. If you haven't heard about this, this is truly corporate greed gone very wrong. A company Lapindo Brantas Inc was drilling in the area for gas and somehow caused hot mud and gas to spew out and it's been spewing out unceasingly since June. By December it had left 10,000 people homeless and no end in sight. The government is demanding US$420million in compensation but there are concerns that this might not be enough. Check out http://www.alertnet.org/thenews/newsdesk/JAK172519.htm.

I truly don't spend enough time here, as my hubby will attest, but every time I do, it strikes me how similar and different our two countries, Malaysia and Indonesia, are. For one thing, we definitely don't speak the same language. After 8 years I am finally beginning to get the hang of 'Jakartan', in that I'm beginning to understand the slang and am getting some of the inflections. It's a bit strange to listen to myself sometimes.Still people tend to think I'm really quiet here because I'm too shy to speak Malay for fear of being misunderstood ( or worse, being laughed at) and feel silly speaking English when we're supposed to be 'serumpun'.

Language apart, we also have very different mindsets about many things. As much as we like to think of Indonesia as not being as developed as us, and only a nation of maids and labourers, many Indonesians are certainly much more culturally sophisticated than any of us. You just have to read Geonawan Mohamad's writings, beautiful in English, breathtaking in Indonesian. He's just done an opera libretto called The King's Witch with a musical score by Tony Prabowo, performed by musicians from the US here in Jakarta. Indonesian musicians, dancers, costumers and crew travelled all over the world with the renowned impresario Robert Wilson to perform the epic I La Galligo, based on an ancient Javanese legend. Last night at a friend's house I saw a book on Indonesian exports. The interesting thing is that they did not limit it to just furniture, batik and handicrafts, they included architects, musicians, film-makers, artists and cartoonists, because " these days creativity is exportable". I've never heard a single government official in Malaysia say that!!! Is that because they don't think so, they've never thought of it or we don't have any exportable creativity here?

Today I read in the papers that as many as 158 (and counting) film industry people are returning their Citras (the Indon equivalent of Oscars) in protest against the last Indonesian Film Festival in 2006 because they awarded the Best Film Award to a movie that stole the copyright of some songs. They are also demanding some changes in the way the film industry is run by their equivalent of FINAS to better promote the industry. This includes changing the Film Censor Board into a Film Classification Board (although I must say that their Censor Board is nothing like the paranoid lot at ours, the final kiss in Ada Apa dengan Cinta being a case in point). Can you imagine this happening in our country?

Ostensibly Indonesians are mostly Muslims. But even while they are getting ever more conservative, many Indonesians have a much more open attitude than we do about many things. They don't obssess about eating halal food like we do when they are abroad. They are used to having friends of all religions, sometimes even relatives of all religions. They are not afraid to debate religious issues at all. Recently there was a demo led by Ibu Sinta Nuriyah, wife of former President Abdurrahman Wahid (Gus Dur), against polygamy!!! Gus Dur is of course head of the 40-million strong Nadhatul Ulama so both he and his wife are very influential . And they've both been consistently progressive on many issues affecting Indonesian Muslims. (So, ok, he was a lousy President. Which may mean that religious leaders don't necessarily make good administrators. But Indonesia has been dealt pretty bad deals, leaderwise.)

Not to say that everything is OK here. The club down the street from where I stay got raided by vigilantes and have since shut down. We are surrounded by three mosques with extremely tone-deaf bilals who insist on high-decibel azan competitions with one another, even at 4.30am. How this converts anyone, I don't know.

State schools here suck. They're overcrowded, underfunded and provide low quality teaching. Violence between students of different schools is rife. Yet they have some good private schools. My stepson went to an Islamic private school where he received an excellent education, including a very progressive brand of Islam. One year he wrote, produced and acted in a play which featured Jesus Christ and the parents, all Muslims, came and loyally supported their kids. I can't imagine that happening in Malaysia, where schools would never even dream of giving students that leeway.

While we think of ourselves as diverse, we don't have nearly as much diversity as Indonesia. They may all look the same to us, but to them, Indonesians throughout the 17000 islands are all different with different languages, cultures, histories, religions, even looks. They can tell just by the name where a person comes from, whereas we can't tell a Kelantanese from a Johorian on paper, unless they start talking. My son's name, Haga Tara, actually comes from two different languages, both meaning light or star. So as similar as we may think ourselves with Indonesians, we really are not.

Until I started coming here regularly about a decade ago, I really knew nothing about Indonesia. Most of us probably know very little or almost nothing about our neighbouring countries at all. Likewise, it's amazing what stereotypes Indonesians have about us Malaysians - that we are very conservative and snobby towards them. I wonder sometimes how much miscommunication we have between us, just because we assume our cultures and mindsets are the same.

85 comments:

amir said...

I knew Indonesia rocks when I went there and watched their news programme.

It was just after the tsunami and the Japanese Government was giving them 50million or 500 million in aid or something.

The FIRST question asked by the Indonesian journalists was this:

"Given our history of corruption and all, are you sure you want to give us all this money?"

Wow! Restecpa!

The way they treat culture is infinitely more mature and that's why they have a more developed arts scene.

They have substance whereas in Malaysia, it's mostly about how you look. All about image. Blablabla.

timothy wong said...

this is an awesome post. i have to agree with you. i've never been to indonesia but i just came to the US to start my degree in economics and philosophy 4 months ago and i thought i had the US figured out since all the media i got was american and all the books i read are american but i couldn't have been more wrong about the society here too. it goes to show that we assume we know more than we should.

concerning the arts, i fully agree with you. malaysia is so far behind in the field of arts. my university's strengths are in arts and humanities and only here have i learnt to appreciate art, visit art galleries and learn to critique paintings and sculptures. my professors let me watch films and analyze them with me. i doubt i would have been taught such abilities in malaysia. we clearly lack such depth in understanding of media in our country, which is sad, because these kind of things hold us back from moving forward. it is our shallow understanding of life and culture that keep us chained to the idols of our cave.

Varthana.v said...

Im working abroad in a middle east based french company,the top management he prefer Indonesians to any other people.They are hardworking and easier to train.Though, there are some bad apples.In malaysia we only come across Labourers and housemaids thats why we always have abad perception on them..Try working with some Indonesian porfesionals,our profesionals have alot to learn from them.

ween said...

I knew a few Indonesians while I was in college - actually a best friend of mine was one.

To me, they're in a way you've mentioned are much more advanced and different from us Malaysian. They're indeed more open in their speech and are not afraid to voice their views. They're more unite incomparison to us Malaysian.

As to of what they think of us, Well most of us think that they're good only for being maids & hard labour in our country.:)

I'm not pro indonesions but we are suppose to absorb what's good and leave what's bad right???!!

So, how long are you there for??

Cuddly Family said...

http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/asia-pacific/6228125.stm this article should be interest to you.. raised some interesting questions!

Yeah, I remember indonesians who were so laidback about things.. One muslim lady married to a catholic man, he still practises his religion, she told me the kids can make up their mind what they want to practice when they r older enough...

can you see anyone here allowing this?! Sigh..

do you think racial polirisation (sp??) is increasing? I dont remember all this when I was growing up here.. Malaysian politicians are good at "hot air" I guess.. but consistent policies? hmmm.. As patrick teoh's blog puts it the "govt flers ham it up" :D

anyway, keep on blogging!

pelf said...

It is truly heart-warming that your stepson took part in a play which featured Jesus and his parents attended it.

Back here in Malaysia, Buddhist groups are not even allowed to donate school bags and stationery to the poor Malay kampung kids (link here). How narrow-minded some people can be!

tzeyang said...

This is a very good overview about the state in Indonesia and Indonesian life...interesting writing from you again.

Thank you.

Brian said...

Indeed there are much misguided perceptions/biases between Msia and Indonesia.

I worked in Sulawesi for the past few years and travel often to Bali - met so many wonderful, open minded and intellectual people.

I lived in a small town of 3000 population shared with expats, and there are 3 churches and a few mosques. (i know of 3 but heard there are at least 1 more)

Indonesian, regardless of origin (pribumis, chinese whatnots..) if asked will tell you straight whether they go to church or to mosques... in Msia? can u imagine that happening?

Are we progressive? Compare KL with that small town of 3000 above... we look progressive with big buildings but the mindset of some of our people are more backwards than the people over there!

Khim said...

...and our Indonesian neighbours are also one up on us in the area of LGBT activism...Recently, an Indonesian lesbian/gay/bisexual/transgender group, Arus Pelangi , launched a national campaign against homophobic regional statutes based on Muslim sharia law.....

yes, we can indeed learn from our neighbours...

lyana said...

agree! it was such an eye opener when i was in jakarta 5 years back..

and yes, somehow the indonesians have this spirit in them in whatever they do..regardless fr being a lowly maid to the most intriguing filmmaker...we malaysians should learn that.

zewt said...

I was under the impression that our neighbour can be quite extremist. But the part about how your stepson wrote and acted in a play which would have been a taboo made me think otherwise.

If such feat is to be repeated in our nation, I guess there will people ready to go to war outside the school hall.

Full Time Mom said...

The main problem we have in Malaysia is that our "leaders" have a tendency to only want 'yes-men' working for them.

People in leadership positions (CEOs, MPs, Ministers, Chief Ministers, etc) should hire smart, analytical people who have the capability to challenge authority (in a respectful way AND with facts to back them up).

Yes, leaders must be intelligent first and foremost. But they need to surround themselves with people who are better than they are in areas that are not their strong points.

Until and unless our leaders have the self confidence to hire non-yes men, we will continue to hear about half-baked ideas like:

1. Putting "Child on Board" car stickers so that other drivers drive carefully around your car that has a child in it. Firstly, since when was it MY responsibility for YOUR child's safety? Secondly, I've never heard of a car sticker saving a child's life. However, I know of seat belts and child restraint seats.

2. Lowering university entrance standards for boys since there are fewer boys than girls in universities. (I won't even start ranting on this one.)

Just to name 2 pea-brained ideas that come out of our so-called leaders.

*cosmic freak* said...

I never been there, so my comments might not be as deep and substantiate as the rest.

I once read that Nicolas Saputra, when asked about the difference between Malaysians and Indonesians, he replied that one thing he noticed, Malaysians will call themselves Malay, Indian, Chinese, Muslims, Buddhist or Christian first, then they will call themselves Malaysian. For Indonesian, he said that they above all are Indonesian first. Regardless race and religion. That coming from a very young actor.

What I respect Indonesians, yes, their creativity. My brother said the design community there are as the same level as the americans and they're very supportive of their industry.

I researched on some musicians as I'm so into Jazz and Indonesian seems to have lots of Jazz musicians, they studied in the best music school in the states and come home, uplift the music qualities in Indonesia. I think, about 50% of the musicians, designers and film makers in Indonesia have studied and work in the states. Not to say that I look up to the americans, but the exposure they have had and making changes in their home country, that kind of attitude we're lacking here.

And despite how far they go and how high their education level is, they come home speaking the local dialect, the Indonesian language.

Orang kita, balik je Malaysia, not only turning anglophile, they lost interest in speaking in Malay, even if they do, a very english-fied malay.

I wont comment anything on politics. a diplomatic libran like me shouldn't. heh.

this is indeed a very very awesome post, thanks mam for sharing this insight with us.

MarinaM said...

Just to keep some perspective tho, and for us to be aware that things can change fairly quickly, Indonesia is also the home of Abu Bakar Bashir, head of the Jemaah Islamiyah. Farish Noor did an excellent interview of him some time ago which was on Malaysiakini. And the most notorious person here is Nordin Top, who is allegedly responsible for a lot of bombings, and he's Malaysian.

Also, after Suharto fell during the economic crisis in 1998, there was that horrible time when many Chinese Indonesian women were raped. That was seen as a kind of ethnic revenge on people perceived to have disproportionately benefited from development. But it was well-handled and as far as I can see has had no lasting effect on race relations.

Again, because of the enormous disparities between the very rich and the very poor here, I wouldn't take anything for granted in Indonesia.

BTW if anyone likes jazz, the Jak Jazz Festival every year which features Indonesian and international jazz musicians and singers is well worth attending. And the Jakarta Film Festival is pretty good too apparently.

MarinaM said...

Just to keep some perspective tho, and for us to be aware that things can change fairly quickly, Indonesia is also the home of Abu Bakar Bashir, head of the Jemaah Islamiyah. Farish Noor did an excellent interview of him some time ago which was on Malaysiakini. And the most notorious person here is Nordin Top, who is allegedly responsible for a lot of bombings, and he's Malaysian.

Also, after Suharto fell during the economic crisis in 1998, there was that horrible time when many Chinese Indonesian women were raped. That was seen as a kind of ethnic revenge on people perceived to have disproportionately benefited from development. But it was well-handled and as far as I can see has had no lasting effect on race relations.

Again, because of the enormous disparities between the very rich and the very poor here, I wouldn't take anything for granted in Indonesia.

BTW if anyone likes jazz, the Jak Jazz Festival every year which features Indonesian and international jazz musicians and singers is well worth attending. And the Jakarta Film Festival is pretty good too apparently.

*cosmic freak* said...

thanks for the note, MaM. aside from the good things we can learn from the Indonesians, there are other risk arising from different perspective, yes. as lovers of peace, we just have to be caution at all times and keep ourself updated with the quick changes that might happen as foreseen by others.

owh, I know about the Jak Jazz Festivals and also there's Bali Jazz Festivals, apparently they have lots of jazz festivals there. hurm, now I really need to get my passport done!

Typhoon Sue said...

"many Indonesians have a much more open attitude than we do about many things. They don't obssess about eating halal food like we do when they are abroad"

I too obsess abt finding halal food when i am abroad, does that mean I don't have an open attitude? ;) hehe... I do understand your point though, food doesn't have to processed by Muslims or have a halal logo in order to be halal. But if you insist on finding halal food outlets when u are abroad, this site can probably help: http://www.zabihah.com

That aside, yes, i agree that indonesians have a more open attitude on matters relating to religion and aurat especially, which is why there was (or still is?) an Indonesian version of Playboy magazine (boys! don't ever dream of this happening here!)

hawaiichee said...

One thing we all can protest and agree upon. That we do not want to be cheated to pay irrasional toll rates because in 1998 the government signed an unfair agreement that does not benefit the people but only benefit the principles of NEP.

Come out on jan 7th to protest.

For Malaysians who want to register their protest against another round of unfair toll hikes, they should support the demonstration organised by the Anti-Toll Coalition of political parties, NGOs and trade unions on Sunday (7th January 2007) at 4 pm in front of Sunway Pyramid, Subang Jaya.

Anonymous said...

I've seen alot of Indonesian kids from the (I think it is the Indonesian International school) on the LRT trains and I notice they are much trendier (but well-behave) and speak better that our local kids especially better than our local malay kids.

Anonymous said...

"...that religious leaders don't necessarily make good administrators. But Indonesia has been dealt pretty bad deals, leaderwise."

Good observation again mm. Current PM provided another proof that we are "serumpun."

Yishy said...

Your post definitely makes me feel small as a Malaysian! Its good for me to realise that there are things bigger and better so near which i or we can learn from. Our culture is just as rich if we really cared to find out. I just hope that one day Malaysia would finally find its identity somehow because at times i can't simply blame the government only, we've been Malaysians so long that the mentality stays no matter who's in charge.

I've been lucky enough that my dad have brought our family abroad for holidays since i was young. I've the opportunity to look at many different cultures. Everything i see and learn gives me a different experience. It makes me more curious of the everyone else even my fellow Malaysian. We have so much to discover among ourselves. I hope more people would be more open and find out more someone else be it their neighbours or colleagues.

ruby ahmad said...

I agree with what you wrote here.

My first visit to Jakarta some years back, made me see what you see of Indonesia now. It was a WOW! I felt the pulse of the people there. I detected even then, they were far far ahead of us in many aspects..thoughts, philosophy, creativity, attitude, enthusiasm, awareness, open-mindedness, style, resillience, culture ..well, just name it!

I saw their best set, was (still is) umpteen times better than our best. That was most humbling for me, as Malaysian, then.

I took my hat off and immediately felt proud for the xx % of Indonesian blood that flows in me (ha ha and in so many of the others too here I know).

For one thing, they are an old civilisation, far far older than us. To be honest we are an infant in comparison. That we have to acknowledge.

They have gone through massive trials and tribulations (both natural and man made) that have allowed their people to strtech their minds.

The number of challenges and adversities they have faced with, contributed to their attitude (most of them), not to be happy to be resting on their laurels, in order to SURVIVE. The need to survive pushed Indonesians to go beyond borders and boundaries to be more creative, unlike us.

The fact that they have a population of more than 10 times ours, do contribute to this difference, where they have more to offer in terms of export of creativity. There is more competition and therefore producing better results, but of course. Competition indeed is healthy.

Indonesia is a great nation, but spoilt by perhaps..ahh..stuff we know anyway (like us here too).

Having said all the above, we still have no excuse. No excuse whatsoever!! I think it is high time we too open our eyes and emulate what is good. Stop dwelling on small issues. We should start to think BIG to get back to our glory days.

So do write on, to create awareness. Awareness is always a start to getting to 'better'.

monsterball said...

Yes Marina...I have travelled the length and breath of Indonesia prefering all the small towns and cities than Jakarta and noticed the people there are hard working...well mannered and curteous. I like to go on mini buses for cheapest transport charges. Jammed like sardine...yet people are clean and orderly and do give way to old folks to sit.....if spaces are not available. THEY DO NOT SMELL DIRTY....NOT LIKE OUR PEOPLE!!! ESPECIALLY ON FRIDAY PRAYERS DAY...alot of old folks dreesed at their best...absolutely clean on way to mosques.
My favourite meals as always been the "makan padang" shops.
I am very fortunate to have Indonesian maids where I take the opportunities to meet their relatives and by following them back to their home town on their well deserved holidays. One way is to see they get home safely with the money they earned. Usually they are from very remote and small villages. That is where I enjoy most.I HAVE THE BEST TOURIST GUIDES AND DRIVERS AT THE CHEAPEST PRICE AND THEY ALWAYS MAKE ME FEEL AT HOME.
Giving them some of their daily needs on my departing day presents....they are ever grateful and thankful people.
Actually in every country....to see the real people and strength of the nation....one must visit the out skirts towns and villages ...not the big cities.
One will be amassed how well whole of Indonesia is being managed by town councillors and penghulus.
Our respective people from the government should go and see and hope some may come home feeling shameful.
I love Indonesia and I am a Malaysian Chinese. THEY DO MAKE ME FEEL AT HOME AND SAFE.
Respecting them....taxi drivers...bellboys...roadside stall food sellers etc and be humble...one need not worry even if that area is a racialist place. I always notice they look into your eyes to judge you.

The Unladen Swallow said...

I suppose we Malaysians tend to think poorly of Indonesians given that most of the ones we meet on the peninsula happen to be illegal workers who rob, parangize families by the dozen, grab ladies handbags and wage riots in KL (remember that rumour some years back?).

Then I meet them in Australia, as well as the ones I know online (who reside in Dutchland mostly), and find out that they're not as evil as they're played out to be, even if they did have a very-screwed up recent history.

Go figure.

deOughtred said...

I couldnt disagree with you. Maybe, Malaysian needs to go out to feel how 'tinggi atau rendah langit'. If you ever studied abroad, you'll know who's the slave and who's the master. While Malaysian students busy working part time in diners, comp lab the Indonesians are driving nice cars and live alone in apartment that can easily fits 10 Malaysian students. Of course, they were more moderate after the '98 economic crisis.

Talking about being proud to be a Malaysian, we dont speak Bahasa Melayu much. Even in meetings when there's no ex-pat, we still talk in English. If we go to Indonesia, we tend to speak the way they speak. But they hardly speak our language when they're here. Shame on us. To that note, I'll continue in BM.

Satu perkara yang saya perasan ketika di Indonesia, rangkaian televisyennya pelbagai, penuh dengan rancangan yang menarik dan yang paling ketara, ianya adalah percuma. Bayangkan untuk mendapat 9 saluran televisyen tanpa perlu membayar yuran bulanan. Dan yang lebih membanggakan, mereka dapat menonton siaran langsung perlawanan Liga Perdana Inggeris di saluran percuma. Dan tidak perlu juga syarikat korporat mereka mengeluarkan wang berjuta-juta untuk menaja siaran langsung perlawanan atau menaja stadium kelab ternama untuk membolehkan rakyat mereka merasa kesenangan.

Ya, teruslah kita berbangga dengan Astro, melahirkan bakat-bakat seni melalui Akademi Fantasia - semuanya tanpa tujuan memperjuangkan seni dengan tulus, tetapi dengan niat untuk mengaut keuntungan. Tanpa keuntungan, tidak mungkin mereka akan menganjurkan rancangan-rancangan seperti itu. Sama juga dengan MyTeam. Jika yang membawa kertas kerja penajaan itu hanyalah insan bernama Ahmad atau Bala atau Chong, adakah mungkin TM akan menaja program itu, setelah mereka mengeluarkan jutaan ringgit menaja keseluruhan Liga Malaysia dan juga mempunyai pasukan bolasepak sendiri, di samping pasukan pelapis bawah 19 tahun. Adakah inisiatif mencungkil bakat-bakat baru terpendam bolasepak itu berniat ikhlas atau sekadar mengejar keuntungan. Yang turut menjelekkan apabila pemain-pemain bolasepak yang berlatih dan menjalani sesi pemilihan di Eropah (suatu ketika dulu) tidak bertahan lama kerana rindukan kampung halaman, makanan tidak sesuai.

Banggalah Malaysia!

Darren said...

If you care to notice when you visit a bookstore there, they have translated many English books into Bahasa Ind. The quest for knowledge and the identity of their bangsa is simply something we Malaysian don't have. Not only we are polluting our BM, I can only see some kiddie novel cinta and kisah seram bla bla bla....over here. When I was a little kid, I pour over good translation of overseas literature like Kisah-Kisah Dongeng Parsi and Totto Chan. Even I'm not a Malay, these books took my imagination away.

Din said...

uDear Marina,

This is a very perceptive piece. Not only we do not appreciate the intellectual and cultural richness and diversity of Indonesia, but we treat Indonesian guest workers badly and we insult their dignity.

I often wondered how I would have felt if the Indonesian authorities and citizens treated me (and my fellow Malaysians) in the same way. It would have been painful for me to be mistreated, being away from home. But to their credit, I was received with great courtesy and kindness.I spoke Kedah Malay, but they understood what I was saying. Living in Indonesia was for me a very humbling experience.

In contrast, our Royal Police and Immigration officials (the men in green and green berets with yellow badges) are guilty of human rights violations in their handling of Indonesian guest workers.I saw these immigration types beat Indonesian workers on the 12th Residential College construction site when I was with the Asia-Europe Institute, University of Malaya. I also saw traffic cops stopping taxis on the streets to check on Indonesian workers and extract their hard earned cash. I heard horror stories from taxi drivers.

We do not realise that without their skills and capacity for hard and back breaking work under the most trying conditions given our hot and humid weather, our construction sector would have collapsed.

I lived in Indonesia in 1991 in beautiful Jakarta. By interacting with Jakartans, I learned to admire their courage and patience in the face of hardships, tragedies and calamities.

Indonesians are, in my view, a special people with distinctive history and rich civilisation, of which they can be justifiably be proud.

We can learn from them and appreciate their music, dances, paintings, literature, and their creativity and dexterity. Alas, we think we are "superior" to them. In fact, I can say openly now that whenever we deal with the Indonesia, we are hampered by our own sense of inadequacy. As a result, we put on this air of superiority. Without this mindset, we can learn nothing from this great neighbour.

monsterball said...

One need not feel embarassed to speak incorrect or broken Malay or Indonesia languages. In Malaysia and Indonesia....no one has ever ridicule me speaking broken bahasa. They know I am sincere and trying my best. Infact...we learn from each other. I teach them English and they teach me Sundi or Javanese languages.I love "mata kuching"...not longan!! They call it "krenG kang" there . PLEASE TAKE NOTE.
Yes I wish I can speak or write perfect Bahasa....but in my business that has always been dealing with foreigners in the English language....I tend to improve on English alone.
Infact ...my English has gone from good to worst!! Previously, we are particular on grammar mistakes. Noticing our road signs and TV adverts seems to talk in slangs and catch words ....trully not English.. ..no grammer and wrong spelling seems quite acceptable. Sad government allow such broken English in TV and signboards.
To be very practical...we need to master the English languge for worldwide business....communications ...medicine....science and technology studies. Even China proffessionals now speak excellent English. English was implemented by TDM in Malaysia and hope present and future government will maintain and go forward.....not backward.
We cannot be like France...Japan or Holland to name few that dare to communicate with you on their language. They are very well develooped countries and have things to contribute to the world. Malaysia has none ...so we must not force others to speak Bahasa to do business with us...especially from the government sectors.

monsterball said...

There is no doubt in my mind that Indonesia is more sincere and more democractic country than Malaysia.
Our government simply do not want to admit it.
Right now...even more progressive and developed. They are 10 times larger than Malaysia in population and hundred times larger in land area.......yet people live with pride as Indonesians.
Malaysian politicians talk alot with no substance. When will they change?

spycatcher03 said...

I fully agree with you. After leaving Jakarta for more than 10 yrs now, it is heartening to have somebody sharing the same view as percieved by me too! I would like to point out your predictment the blasting of azans every 'waktu' as if some form of competition going on. The density of population in jakarty is so acute that you may find mosques everywhere, sometime hardly 100 meters from each other. Here they can't afford to follow one 'kariah' one mosque , like us in Malaysia. They go by volume of congregators and the size of mosques. More people means more mosque to be build in one small area. That's why you may find hotel carparks are turned into mosques for Ffriday prayers and all are full! They are very practical and resourceful lots. They have their own ways of solving problem. To combat crime theform Rukun Tetangga/Rukun Warga since 40 yrs ago and it is still functioning. You can't be an illegal there because ican bet you, you'll be hauled up in less than 10 minutes ...by RT/RW ! Malaysia should study this , in order to improve our Rukun Tetangga schemes. Happy New Year , Marina & family.

monsterball said...

"din" blogger...how true, how true of our Malaysian government inferiority complexes putting out a superiorty ones.
Worst still...our present generation can "chacap manyak" ...smart to redicule others but have no productivity record to be recognised and respected by their bossess.
They have no manners at all!!
In contrast, some are so timid and shy..especially the young women. On proper checking their results....they make so many mistakes. Secretly they know they cannot perform.....so keep quiet.
Sadly alot come with the right qualifications and CANNOT SPEAK OR WRITE PROPER ENGLISH !!
Chinese companies were accused to be racialistic in employing workers. FAR FROM THE TRUTH. Chinese are smart business people and will never use race or religion to employ. They focuss on productivities all the time and I thing larger the company...more careful in choosing right candidates. They will loose more....even terminating the wrong candidate. If you understand this...then you cannot blame chinese go for other races with a proven track record of working fast ...error free ..seldom get sick and can speak or write good English .
This is put out ....hoping right government minister read this and do something to help his own kind PERMANENTLY.

sohaimizainal said...

What I like most whenever I visited Indonesia is that it makes me feel and realise who I really am. I felt free. I can mix freely, (as to a certain extend) I speak and understand their language.

You can be who you want to be. There are no imposed restrictions. During Ramadhan, you can fast if you believe it is your obligation, or eat in broad daylight if you want to. Nobody knows you.

There are so many nightclubs and discos if you are game for it. Or you may choose the numerous art centers, libraries and wonderful places to visit and learn.

I found my trueself in Jakarta.

Din said...

The last sentence should read:

"With this kind of mindset, we can learn nothing from this great neighbour." I am sorry for the error.

haxa said...

i've never been to indonesia but you can tell from their culture exports; films, soap operas, and music; that their arts & literature scene are far ahead of us. for our music community is dreaming about the good 'ol days of 90's, their music arrangement is very progressive and their lyrics are much more soulful than us. and you've caught my attention on their opera production. i definitely want to watch that.

in india, they are now reaping success from nehru's science & technology policies - indonesians has to thank their founding fathers' pancasila policy for their generations today put their bangsa indonesia as their identity instead of racial. while we can be proud of our last 50 years of succesful formula; i think we have to look for new one to be competitive in the future.

laimun said...

The feeling is mutual. We (the general public) look at Indonesians with a touch of superiority. We consider them socially and status wise, a rung below us. We round up all decimal points and group them as house helpers and foreign workforce that in more ways than less, is running this country. Those who are wary should be more aware of me using the word ‘running’.

On the other hand, our kinfolks (self-acclaimed) on the Indonesian mainland does not take us seriously and deep down, considers us like flies that could be swotted at any given time. They could not give a damn when we jump up and down complaining about the haze or piracy on the Straits.

And we, the so called superior homo sapiens, embraces them in jolly brotherhood whenever we are threatened by exterior or even interior evil forces. We evoke the blood ties gambit.

In Indonesia, whether you are a Javanese, Sumatran, Balinese, Chinese, Sundanese or any of the myriad ethnic descendants, you are first and foremost, an Indonesian and proud to be one.

This is where our national leaders have failed to incorporate our identity. We are always a Malaysian Malay, Malaysian Chinese or Malaysian Indian and whatever. We talk so much of our racial harmony, but sad to say, it is only on the surface. Even now, as we approach 50 years of Merdeka, is that not the truth?

And all those who come to this country to seek their fortune, in their own way and for the betterment of their various nations, they too take back new technologies. Working on the mega projects, which is deemed too distasteful for our laid back workforce, the so called aliens gained the technology transfer at ground level. While our people go around rempiting and singing ‘where is the love’.

We groan and moan about the jobless. Well, don’t the authorities see who are occupying the million or so jobs in the hands of others? Where are the policy makers? Lots and lots of talks and seminars but talk is cheap. I too, can only talk.

Pro-rights said...

religion is a private matter in indonesia whereas here is a state matter,truely there is no compulsion in indonesia and apostasy is no issue, anyway you don't see droves converting out eventhough they have the liberty,that the beauty of having faith in something you believe.

monsterball said...

One day, most of our younger citizens may go to Indonesia or Thailand or Singapore as factory workers and maids.
That day is very soon.....when the oil fieds are dried up.
I will be okay...long gone dead...but these youths and their children will be the ones that will suffer most.
I recalled Ipoh pride themselves........owing most Mercedez and the youths drive only Alfa Romeo saloon and sport cars.
They set up so many beauty parlours for their pesonal pleasures. THESE WERE THE RICH CHINESE IN IPOH. Now they are mostly working for the poor folks that concentrate on educations and serious futures.
I see history will repeat itself...but this time....it is the Malay filty rich particulrly in Selangor and Kuala Lumpur.

the Razzler said...

Personally, I think Malaysia is capable of achieving great results in terms of being the Model Nation where multi-racial & etnics people can live in harmony .. but we have to first & foremost, subdue our egoism in protecting each other's rights & instead accept and respecting each other's belief!!

Anonymous said...

Indonesian Chinese friends of mine told me that, their parents wants them to start a new life outside Indonesia whenever possible. My Singapore friends told me, there are alot of Indonesian Chinese students trying to settle in SG

Of course, you won't see any chinese or indian, since from what i was told by my Indonesian Chinese friends, that they aren't allowed to have chinese/indian names, unlike the freedom given here to every races in Malaysia.

Just my $0.02.

monsterball said...

Chinese in Indonesia represents a mere 5% of the 250 million populations. Thus the Chinese needs to tow the line.
Chinese in Malaysia is around 26% of the 25 million......plus another total of 19% altogether other races. As such Malaysian government is wise to allow all to keep their original names. There was discussions about this on early days of formation of Malaysia and the Chinese and Indians strongly opposed following Indonesian on this matter.This is perhaps the wisdom and far sightedness of our Independence policy makers that makes Malaysia so peaceful....plus the world only appointed King amongst the 9 rulers rotation sysytem is a wonder to outside world.

Mat Rempit Hubris said...

To monsterball,

Bravo, finally a reasonable post by u.

monsterball said...

lkyrohey Mat...This is a serious matured site managed by MM. I am tuned to serious stuff here. You mean all my other messages are not reasonable ah?
I have to unwind....untune and sometimes be half past six posting at Rockybru or Sheih's.
I like Kadir Jasin block too. Peace.

monsterball said...

'mat rempit hubris" You have been judging all my messages in all the sites I put out comments. Please do not try your stunt at this very cultured site. Have some respect forMM and open your eyes where to irritate me.
I will ignore you next time.

Mat rempit hubris said...

MONSTERBALL,

I have no idea what u are talking about...i detect some kinda request from your part and i would love to help but since i dont understand what u r talking about, i cant.

Have we met somewhere before?

From what u said, u seem to be pretty self- enamoured and like to keep scores. But unfotunately, i dont, and i dont keep track of cross- blog referances.

Who's shiekh?a friend of urs?

what on earth are u talking about?

Anyway was just complementing u previously..dont know y u seem to be irritated.

Anyway u do waht u want to do ok?But if u dont want people commenting on ur comments, then dont commentlah.

Once its on the comment space than its up grabs loh

Hope to read ur matured opinions soon.And if appropriate i will make my own comments on the posting and also on the comments of others.

After all thats what blogs r for.

Anonymous said...

At last, there is someone out there that have the same opinion as me (lebih kurang laa) Firstly, u lot have to excuse me since i'm not a good writer, thus tend to rattle allover.
I married an Indonesian, just like MM. Imagine my friends and family reaction, an Indonesian? Is he a construction worker, whats hes education backgroung? I said, so what he's an Indonesian? Dia mahkluk Allah juga..(btw he's here as a professional worker...involved in projects that are to Malaysian benefits) Anyway, the Malay guys that I met were unable to accept there are time when I need to express myself or be very vocal with my opinion. They prefer the Malay girls that will serve them when they get married or that will iron their clothes after finishing work, cooking for the family, then look after the children.
Anyway, I just got back from my first Hari Raya Haji with my in-laws and I just can't get enough of Jakarta. I love every moment. You cannot deny that it is a an overpopulated country, jammed, rubbish every where. But if you go there with an open-mind, there are so many things you can learn and see.
"Jiran tetangga" still exist, kids grew up together and neighbours are still the same after 20 years, everyone knows everyone, they know who are the "visitors" to the area, thus making the housing area a safe place for families. These scenario only exist in Malaysia when I was 5 years old, which was 30 years ago!. Jakarta is famous for its jammed pack road, with 3-lane highways can become 6-lane, but throughout my 2 weeks stay there, I hadn't encounter any accidents at all like the one in Malaysia, where if given 10-lane highway u still have accidents that is out of this world. i can find foods eveywhere, even at 2.00 am (i know, mamak stall opens 24 hours but they don't come right up to your front door and cook for you). Every year my husbands give money to Malaysian government so that he can stay here with his family, but these people at the immigratin are so "sombong". We, Malaysian think we are rich, you go to Indonesia, you are an instant "millionaire" (jutaan rupiah) but I think Indonesian are richer. They buy house and cars with cash. We still owe the banks for our car and house. With RM40,00, I can buy a single link house. Here, with my RM42,000 I can only buy those "rumah kotak". At the end of the day, just because the majority of its people that are in Malaysia that we know are construction workers or maid or parang-welding robbers, doesn't meant we are better off then them.

And other thing,

I just want to say this to my fellow Malaysians "Jangan jadi katak di bawah tempurung" and "Jangan bodoh sombong".We are so contented with our life. yes, Malaysia have achieved so many things, provided us with a good life to most of us, but there is more than Malaysia only. Go and see the world, but do it with an open-mind and learn from others. Then only we can become a civilised country.

putri_Indonesia said...

To anynomous who said this "... you won't see any chinese or indian, since from what i was told by my Indonesian Chinese friends, that they aren't allowed to have chinese/indian names, unlike the freedom given here to every races in Malaysia."

First of all, I can say that you don't have enough knowledge about Indonesia to comment on that issue. But I can understand that. Even in Indonesia, not many people understand why Chinese mostly use Indonesian names. The reason was back during the cold war era and related to an event called Pemberontakan G-30S-PKI or the rebellious movement of Indonesian Communist Party in 1965. Since then anything related to communism is hated and prohibited in Indonesia. There was a suspicion that the Chinese government supported the PKI, therefore anything related to Chinese was also prohibited. Unfortunately, this Anti-Communist Anti-Chinese policy spread to other issues, including people names. Since then Indonesian Chinese have to use Indonesian names to prove their love to their Indonesian nationality as well as their stand of Anti-Communism.

Oddly enough, some of the most nationalist Indonesian Chinese I know are the ones famous with their Chinese names, like the economist Kwin Kian Gie, or the student activist Soe Hok Gie (watch the movie "Gie" with Nicolas Saputra acted as Soe Hok Gie) or from my generation, my fellow University of Indonesia student, Yap Yun Hap who died during a student demonstration in 1999.

But after the collapse of Soeharto, slowly but sure this Anti-Chinese policy has been dismantled. Now the Chinese can celebrate their Chinese New Year openly or publish chinese newspaper, or even if they like they can use their Chinese names.

But it is not true that Indians in Indonesia cannot names their children with Indian names. First of all, the Indians have nothing to do with PKI. Secondly, to prove what I say, you just have to see all the producers of Indonesian soap operas (I know BMBP, Malin Kundang and Mutiara Hati are quite popular in Malaysia), they are all Indian Indonesians with Indian names.

To Ibu Marina, terima kasih banyak atas tulisannya yang sangat menarik dan komentar-komentar dari orang-orang di blog ini yang membuat saya merasa bangga sebagai orang Indonesia. Memang benar masing-masing kita punya banyak kekurangan dan kelebihan. Indonesia punya banyak kekurangan dan kelebihan, begitu juga Malaysia. Sebagai bangsa serumpun yang masih sama-sama dalam proses membangun, masih panjang jalan yang kita tempuh. Mungkin dari segi pembangunan ekonomi, Malaysia lebih maju karena penduduknya lebih sedikit dan lebih mudah mengaturnya. Tetapi dari segi pembangunan identitas bangsa, Indonesia sedikit lebih maju karena betapapun banyaknya suku di Indonesia, betapapun bermacamnya agama yang ada, kami tetap mengidentifikasi diri sebagai orang Indonesia.

ngabdul said...

Saya merasa senang bahwa ternyata ada rakyat malaysia yang dapat memandang sisi positif Indonesia. Memang tak dapat dielakkan bahwa citra Indonesia kurang begitu baik di mata masyarakat luar negeri termasuk juga mungkin rakyat malaysia. Dan perasan bertambah kecewa manakala saya menjelajahi internet dan nampaknya cukup banyak warga malaysia (sepertinya orang malaysia suka sekali nge-blog) memandang rendah negeri ini. Padahal jika mau mereka merunut sejarah nenek moyangnya saya yakin sebagian besar dari mereka pasti keturunan orang Indonesia juga (bugis, minang, jawa, dan sebaginya.

Tak masalah 'lah mereka lupa nenek moyangnya sendiri sehingga ringan buat mereka untuk memandang rendah bangsa Indonesia dan merasa diri superior. Namun jika memang mau sedikit berpikiran terbuka dan mau mengunjungi Indonesia, saya yakin saudara kami rakyat Malaysia akan memiliki perspektif baru mengenai Indonesia.

Jika rakyat malaysia merasa bangga sangat dengan fakta semu bahwa mereka jauh "well educated" dibanding saudaranya di Indonesia maka sempatkan diri berkunjung ke toko buku di Indonesia, Anda akan tercengang bahwa ribuan buku yang dijual (misalnya di jaringan toko buku Gramedia) di sana semuanya berbahasa Indonesia. Semua jenis buku ada dari teknik, filsafat, agama, sastera, hadir melimpah ruah. Anda akan lihat dengan mata kepala sendiri betapa rakyat Indonesia sangat mencintai literatur dan bahasanya sendiri : bahasa Indonesia.

Jika rakyat malaysia merasa superior karena pusat perbelanjaannya maka datanglah ke mall-mall di Jakarta, Anda bisa bandingkan betapa lengkap, indah, mewah, dan besarnya mall di Indonesia. Anda bisa sesuaikan dana Anda untuk belanja dari yang murah meriah sampai premium dan temukan tempat belanja yang sesuai dengan kebutuhan Anda.

Tak perlu diceritakan lagi mengenai industri kreatif di Indonesia seperti musik dan filem saya yakin rakyat Malaysia telah mengetahuinya. Dan memang agak aneh, Rakyat Malaysia (walau tidak semua) merasa diri lebih superior namun menyukai seni musik dan film bangsa yang dianggapnya inferior.

Percayalah semenjak reformasi digulirkan tak ada lagi diskriminasi dan intimidasi. Di Indonesia, Anda bisa menjadikan presiden atau wakil presiden sebagai bahan lelucon politik yang disiarkan TV ke seluruh Indonesia, tanpa merasa takut untuk dimarahi apalagi ditangkap. Anda dapat bayangkan betapa manusia Indonesia kini jauh berbeda dengan masa lampau.

Walau kemajuan ekonomi Indonesia masih jauh tertinggal, percayalah dengan kerja keras, ketabahan, dan kreatifitas yang dimiliki oleh rakyat Indonesia maka hal itu tinggal menunggu waktu. Seandainya impian akan kemajuan ekonomi belum tercapai hingga seratus tahun lagi, rakyat Indonesia akan selalu tegar dan terus tersenyum.

Andaliman said...

Thank you for writing this article and this is my first time to read a good article about Indonesia by the Malaysian. Terima kasih Ibu Marina

Anonymous said...

i just wan to correct thi line in ur blog post "....the renowned impresario Robert Wilson to perform the epic I La Galligo, based on an ancient Javanese legend. ..."

I La galigo is not an ancient Javanesse legend but it's an ancient Bugisnesse legend

Puu said...

Hi,
my name is putri, and yes, i am an indonesian..
it's interesting to read your writing,
from it i can see indonesia from other point of views (include from the comments you've receive..)

i was gonna correct some facts about the situation in indonesia (for examples: not all of indonesia's public school are bad, inter-ratial married is not recommeded by my religion, and i think you cannot have them here, usually people will get merried some where else, like australia or dutch, and then list their martial status in one of government office, and still much more),
but, i change my mind..
becuse it doesn't matter anymore

yes, we are a diverse nation..
and its a common thing for us..
and people said that there are a lot of terorist in indonesia, but there also a lot of nice people..
please don't generalize indonesia in a bad way..
it also apply for all of the nation in the world..
because all of us id consist of very diverse types of people

"we are suppose to absorb what's good and leave what's bad right?"

don't shy to speak your own language..
especially in indonesia..
where we have a lot of different languages..
it's good to have similarity with our neighboring areas :D

Cheers!!

i'm indonesian said...

All i can say is "rumput tetangga memang selalu lebih hijau" that's why we should trained our self to be thankful of what we got and what we have..

whatever happens in this country, good and bad, i always love indonesian and proud to be one.
We don't choose where we want to born and we don't choose our parents, but i believed God put me in Indonesia for a reason. A reason that i should findout.
I realize the Indonesian reputation in the world was not so good, espcl. with the corruption "things". we are not so proud with our government too. As i can say, people called them not profesional, the yes-man kind of person, corruptor and others bad images.
Me, as a young Indonesian, was so lucky having parents that raised me with good knowledge and well educated.
As i believed, we have to make a difference start from ourself. When i got my bachelor degree from the best university in Indonesia, just like my other friends,wants to have a good job with high salary/month (what a wonderful world...:P). but, what happen to me turns to be the other way. I choose to be a government official. This surprised my fam, especially my dad(he was so angry).

Now i am a govt.off. The place that need to be restructure.
If we don't pay attention and give what we have for the country, then why should you be one of the nationality for?
Don't just complain. Do something. Believed that small things can make a bing change.
What has become now in Indonesia was through a heavy, big rocky way, and long journey. Democracy lead the people to be critical and show what the think good or bad, even sometimes i thougt that we are now too democracy which raise small problems become a big one.

Tentang perlakuan kurang baik rakyat malay terhadap para pekerja dari indo, saya teringat sebuah petuah bijak:
"roda kehidupan selalu berputar. Saat berada di atas, ingatlah mungkin suatu saat kita akan berada di bawah (karna roda kehidupan selalu berputar)"

Apa yang akan terjadi bila kita berada di bawah?
Saat itu, kita hanya akan menuai apa yang telah kita tabur sebelumnya.

So, mungkin kata "serumpun" dengan berbagai macam kekayaan perbedaan di dalamnya,dapat menjadi semangat kebersamaan baru untuk tumbuh bersama membangun bangsa dan negara menjadi lebih baik lagi.

anggunpribadi said...

hi!
nice writings..
I was in KL last July 2007, visiting a friend of mine. And I did find the differences that Marina wrote here in her blogs. Well, nevertheless, everybody got their own culture anyway...

-salam-

Djembar Kartasasmita said...

A very interesting article indeed.
We are "serumpun" only by race and mostly it ends there.

I'm blessed to have studied in the Philippines and to most who have visited Manila, you'll be surprised to notice the many similarities the 3 countries have (Indonesia, Malaysia and the Philippines). The basic difference is each country were "ruled" by different nations.

Getting back to Indonesia & Malaysia, I worked in KL for about a year and have several high school friends there. It's funny despite the difference of "up bringing" by the Brits & Hollander, amazingly "the Melayu factor" is still clearly visible ... whether good or bad.

It is true how much miscommunication we have amongst our two countries, coz all we read in the papers mostly about mistreatment of Indonesian maids and workers. On the other hand, we know that Malaysian companies are buying local plantations for business expansion.

All in all, I always believe each country has 'an edge' and we should strive to understand more of our neighbor. With the ever increasing presence of communication technologies, that should not be too difficult.

achmad said...

Do your government still respect Indonesians who lived in your country, even a Diplomat wife???

please do comment for this shameful incident of your RELA officer

http://www.detiknews.com/index.php/detik.read/tahun/2007/bulan/10/tgl/08/time/215509/idnews/839544/idkanal/10

Anonymous said...

HI MALAYSIAN (I WRITE COMPLETELY)

WE'RE INDONESIANS, NOT INDON!!!!

HAVE YOU CIVILIZED YET? Nowhere in the world, diplomat's wife grab by private investigator like Rela in your country.

HOW COULD YOU DO THIS?

Anonymous said...

Be carefull Malaysian. Watch out.

Your childres grow up acompanied by Indonesia maid.

Your children listen peterpan, dewa, reza, dewi sandra, chrisye songs

Your children are watching jaelangkung, ada apa dengan cinta

So no wonder, 10 years later Malaysia, culturally, 40th province of Indonesia...
Every body speak in bahasa indonesia not malaysia, eat rendag padang, gudeg yogya or soto madura.

HOW SAD???? HAHAHAHAHAHAHA......

My Little Colibri said...

you've just open my perception... we are trully different...so never said again "kita bang bangsa yang serumpun" .... "kita bangsa yang benar benar berbeda" :)

dimas said...

our founding father Soekarno taught us about words called

"Bhinneka Tunggal Ika" means "Unity in Diveristy"

and, gladly, i can find those words in every single school class / University lecture / discussion rooma across Indonesia.

cheers
dimas

GANYANG MALAYSIA !!! said...

SELAMAT IDUL FITRI MALAYSIAN !!!

Hai, sahabatku Malaysia. Bagaimana kabarmu menjelang lebaran kali ini? Wah,
tentunya sudah banyak persiapan serta kesibukan yang menyita waktu karena
sebentar lagi idul fitri akan tiba. Tapi, walaupun sibuk, jangan lupa untuk
mengeluarkan zakat fitrahnya ya... ingat lho, ini kewajiban.

Hai sahabatku Malaysia. Di lebaran nanti jangan lupa putar lagu Rasa Sayange
ya, ups lupa... lagu Rasa Sayang Hey. Lagu itu memang punya irama yang bagus
dan punya nuansa yang mengasyikkan buat siapapun untuk berbalas pantun.
Karena aku tahu di sana tidak punya lagu-lagu yang bagus, makanya kamu
bilang bahwa lagu Rasa Sayang Hey itu adalah lagumu. Tenang saja, aku nggak
marah kok, sebab aku punya ribuan lagu lainnya. Kamu mau?

Hai sahabatku Malaysia. Jangan lupa ya lebaran nanti kamu pasti dikunjungi
oleh saudara-saudaramu. Wah, di rumah pasti sibuknya luar biasa. Piring yang
kotor, gelas yang berantakan, karpet yang terkena tumpahan kuah, atau sampah
yang berserakan. Sahabatku, kamu jangan khawatir. Sebab, saudaraku akan
memberesi semua yang berantakan itu. Kalau saudaraku tidak bekerja sesuai
keinginanmu, ya sudah dicambuk saja, disuruh loncat dari jendela, atau
gajinya nggak usah diberi. Bukannya kamu selama ini juga begitu?

Hai sahabatku, Malaysia. Di saat lebaran nanti, jangan marah ya kalau ada
asap yang juga ikutan menyambangi rumah-rumahmu. Karena hanya itu oleh-oleh
yang bisa aku berikan kepadamu. Meski sebenarnya aku ingin memberikan
buah-buahan kepadamu, tetapi kamu lupa ya kalau pohon-pohonku sudah kamu
ambil. Masak sih kamu bisa lupa? Kan hutan di Sumatera dan Kalimantan
sekarang sudah habis olehmu.

Hai sahabatku, Malaysia. Di lebaran nanti kamu pakai apa? Tentu kamu akan
pakai batik motif perang itukan? Wah, kalau itu sih memang bagus sekali. Di
sini, kamu bisa lihat motif itu di Yogyakarta. Sama? Memang sama, tapi kan
katanya kamu yang punya dan asli dari sana.

Apalagi ketika kamu pakai batik kamu sedang menyantap ketupat dengan lauknya
rendang daging yang kamu bilang asli buatan sana. Aku pernah lho dapat
kiriman darimu, sekotak rendang daging dengan tulisan MADE IN MALAYSIA. Hmm,
memang enak. Jangan khawatir kalau kamu kekurangan resep makanan dan
masakan, kamu tinggal bilang saja. Di sini ada ribuan resep khas Indonesia
yang boleh kamu ambil. Tenang saja aku nggak marah kok, bahkan kalau kamu
bilang khas dan asli dari Malaysia pun aku nggak marah.

Hai sahabatku, Malaysia. O ya menjelang lebaran nanti tanggal 10 Oktober ada
astronotmu kan yang akan terbang ke luar angkasa dengan Soyuz. Wah, selamat
ya. Aku turut senang lho. Ternyata tidak sia-sia bapak-ibu guru kami
mengajari anak-anak Malaysia pendidikan. Bahkan sampai sekarang pun masih
banyak kan profesor Indonesia yang mengajar di sana. Wah, kalau kamu lupa
terhadap siapa gurunya, ya nggak apa-apa. Karena bagi aku guru itu adalah
pahlawan, pahlawan tanpa tanda jasa. Jadi kalau kamu melupakan sejarah dan
kenyataan itu ya wajar saja.

Hai sahabatku, Malaysia. Suatu saat nanti aku akan berlebaran di sana. Tapi
apakah kamu ingat dengan namaku? Ya, namaku INDONESIA dan bukan INDON. Kalau
kamu lupa sih ya nggak apa-apa. Toh, selama ini kamu juga sering lupa.
Maklum kamu kan orang muda yang ngakunya tua bangka. He he he he....

Hai sahabatku Malaysia kenapa kamu garang ketika lagu-laguku di putar di
sana, apakah karena kamu tidak bisa menciptakan lagu sendiri... hanya lagu
isabela adalah.... hahahah lagu kami banyak dan musisi kami juga banyak coba
denger deh pasti enak-enak jangan marah donk kalau engga bisa bikin lagu...

Hai sahabat ku Malaysia, kamu engga punya alat musik sendiri ya, ketika alat
musik ku angkulung dibuat dari bambu yang kamu klaim milik kamu, ternyata
warga mu belajar angklung dari bandung... tenang aja kami punya alat musik
masih banyak, kamu tinggal pilih sendiri hehehehe, kasihan kalian tidak
punya darah seni...heheheheh. ..

Hai sahabat ku Malaysia, kalian selalu menganggap warga kami sebagai pembuat
onar, tetapi media masa mu mengatakan kejahatan dilakukan oleh wargamu
sendiri, lempar batu sembunyi tangan hahahaha, biasa tabiat orang muda tidak
mau tanggung jawab.

Hai sahabatku Malaysia selamatya ketika kamu klaim pulau Sipadan dan Ligitan
sebagai wilayahmu, kami maklum karena sempitnya wilayahmu sehingga kamu
minta setitik pulau kami, tenang kami tidak marah karena kami punya jutaan
pulau kamu tinggal pilih saja.

Hai sahabat ku Malaysia kamu klaim budaya Dayak sebagai budayamu, padahal
kamu hanya numpang sedikit wilayah borneo, apa karena tidak mempunyai
kebudayaan sehingga kamu mengambil budaya kami.. tenang kami punya suku lain
kok ada sunda, jawa, menado, papua, ambon, batak, adakah yang kamu tertarik untuk
diakunya lagi... kasian ya suka ngaku-ngaku

Hai sahabat ku Malaysia, katanya kamu mengaku sebagai negara Islam tetapi,
kamu melegalkan judi sebagai pendapatan negera, hahaha, maka kamu masuklah
Islam secara keseluruhan, apakah kamu belajar Islam membolehkan berjudi
hehehehh, makanya belajar Islam dari sumbernya.. kami memiliki kiai dan
ustad yang banyak, kalau perlu belajarlah disini akan kami sambut dengan
senang hati.

Ya sudah sahabatku, Malaysia. Di bulan yang baik dan berkah ini, kuucapkan
kepadamu untuk menikmati lebaran dengan enak ya. Jangan sedih.... aku,
Indonesia nggak apa-apa kok.Aku selalu paham kok kalau kamu memang begitu,
dan memang sifatnya begitu. aku juga paham kamu begitu karena kamu tidak
memiliki jadi kamu curi saja semua dari ku sahabat mu Indonesia, tapi
sebagai sahabat yang baik aku telah memaafkan semuanya, karena aku tau kamu
kekurangan jadi kamu terpaksa harus mencuri...dariku semoga allah memberkati
dan memaafkan atas tindakan mu itu... selamat idul fitri sahabat mu
indonesia yang selalu memahkan kesalahan mu, karena aku lebih bijaksana dan
pengertian.. .. hahahaha

dari sahabat sejati mu,
Indonesia

Anonymous said...

please cool your heads off guys!

Anonymous said...

Hi, I'm an Indonesian student that is currently studying in Malaysia since 3 years ago, and this is my final year. Well, i'm really really glad with the things that you have wrote above, and the comments that makes me flattered as an Indonesian. Well thank you very much for all the things that you have wrote about our country it is very very nice to read something that i think rarely happens right now.

I am very sorry with the comments before me that sounds very provocative and very impolite. To represent all of the Indonesian people, i am really really sorry because that comment put out some destructive effect about our country's image.

Just don't take it personal to all of you Malaysians because i'm very sure it is just another people who tries to provoked something really really bad between this two nations. Well as an intellectual person, i'm really sorry for that. I believe every political problems that are happens between our countries are our government's business and not us.

I never had any problems in Malaysia before, and i hope it'll always be like that until i graduate next year. So to the owner of this blog, i personally thank you for your humble explanation about my country and i really appreciate that very much.
Thanks, and cheers to all of you.

Anonymous said...

It seems like now Malaysia is importing creativity and culture from Indonesia.
But usully if you import something, you keep the information about where it originally came from.
But i think what Malaysia have done is plagiarism.
What a smart nation!

Anonymous said...

Hi!

I agree with the last comment.

To the blog owner, thanks for writing such a beautiful thoughts about Indonesia, you have made me love my country more and more. Despite our economic condition, natural disasters, and political situations, Indonesia is indeed a very beautiful country with its diversity.

I am proud to be an Indonesian..

Thanks

Anonymous said...

Hoho,,, you know Indonesia a lot. Thats good, but your comment? really pathetic. Why you so interested in Indonesia that you wrote about it so much? I think you didn't recognize your country even a little, are you shame to learn about it?

-Rest in Peaces for Malaysia-

MarinaM said...

Dear friends from Indonesia, I don't know why there has recently been an upsurge in comments from Indonesia. Somebody must have put this post up on some Indonesian blogsite and all of you are coming in from there. The thing is, this is such an old posting (from last January) that I don't think any Malaysians are reading it at all, apart from me.

If you read my post carefully, you may be able to ascertain that I am married to an Indonesian. In fact I just returned from celebrating Lebaran with my in-laws. Hence the reason why I do know Indonesia a bit. Though I'm not sure why my post, which is very complimentary of your country, is considered 'pathetic' by some commentors.

I think everyone should be proud of their country, warts and all. There's something wrong and something right with every country. There are many things I don't like about my own country but many things I also love about it. My husband says the same thing about his country, Indonesia.

Peace.

Mix Marriage said...

Dear all,

I think the comments from GANYANG MALAYSIA wasn’t intended to provoke anyone, it was just merely based on ‘rasa kesal/ geram’ from what the entire situations have developed so far.

As an Indonesian who’s married to a Malaysian and has been staying in Malaysia for the past 8 years, I really understand the feelings.

Despite of coming from a respectful and an educated upper class family (& off curse never been looked down in my life before until I stepped on my feet in Malaysia), I was so shock when I got a lot of mistreatments by the people here, not only from the immigration officers, also by my surroundings, just because being an Indonesian.

My passport was thrown in front of my face by the immigration officer without good reason and he said “You are lucky enough to be married to a Malaysian so you can go out from your country”……………MY GOD………………
Ironically, my life was a lot better in every aspects when I was in Indonesia……………..(and YES!!!…..I gave that immigration officer a hard time then!!!....hehehe)

Growing up in Indonesia for the past 26 years, off course I know a lot about my country.

We have a lot of highly qualified professionals, artists, musicians, super rich people, etc…etc….and all of those images go to the drain just because most of Indonesians in Malaysia are maids and contractors.

The daily bad comments and perceptions towards my people and my country make me sad and upset.

In Akademi Fantasia program, during the interview, Aznil asked Adi Fashla (who’s blood is mixed) “How do you feel having Indonesian blood running in you, are you ashamed?”………………..WHAT KIND OF QUESTION IS THAT?..................

And a lot of others which make my ill feels mounting up each in every single day as there is always something new painful comment and mistreatment accur.

I still remember how Malaysian people dislike Singaporeans for being arrogant. Sometimes Malaysians forgot, actually that is the exact perception of Malaysians by the Indonesians.

Though a lot of arrogant people here, I still believe there are still a lot of good people out there.

Posted in the Star Newspaper sometime ago, Malaysian Deputy Prime Minister urged Malaysians to stop thinking that all Indonesians are hard laborers and stop using the word ‘Indon’ as it sounds very downgrading.

But it’s not that easy. We can not change the world overnight but we can’t stop trying.

I appreciate Ibu Marina so much for being sensitive and open minded enough.

Having the power and ability in changing people’s mind through your writing, I really hope Ibu Marina will keep writing about it and won’t stop reminding the Malaysians to start changing their mentality and perception towards my country.

Selamat Lebaran Bu, Salam buat Pak Tara dan Shaista

Anonymous said...

Dear Ibu Marina, thank you for your beautiful article. It's refreshing to read such a positive story about my country, Indonesia.

I've been to Malaysia a couple of times to KL and Johor. But that was back when I was really young. I didn't remember KL much. But I do remember Johor, I remember I had a great seafood dish up there hehehe.

Yes, from what I've been reading on the newspaper, internet, etc, the relationship between our country have gone worse from time to time. We've turned into sort of a "developing country" version of US and Canada ... but worse. We can learn from those two countries. They have their own quarrels, throwing critics at each other, making fun of one and another; but, I never heard anything crazy happened between them. The US citizen still treats Canadians with respect in their country and vice versa.

I just hope that government of all South East Asian countries will start revisiting ASEAN. Rebuild the broken relationships between them. There's an Indonesian saying that says "Tak Kenal Maka Tak Sayang". Maybe we both just don't know each other that well. Maybe the world will be a little bit better once we learn more about one and another.

BTW, I'd like to apologize for some of the harsh words thrown by my fellow Indonesians. They're just ordinary people, like everybody in this world. They have emotion.

Eid Mubarak. Keep writing. Peace.

Anonymous said...

Halo Ibu Marina,
coba dilihat di link dibawah ini
http://www.ucapanart.com/visitmalaysiatoday/gallery/Tarian_Malaysia.pdf
setelah anda lama tinggal di indonesia... apakah menurut anda tarian2 tersebut benar dari malaysia?
ternyata setelah saya lihat memang banyak budaya dari indonesia yang diakui oleh malaysia.....

etja said...

may i cite this article in this forum www.ikastara.org Thx for ur writing :)

Anonymous said...

Dear Ibu Marina,

Really thanks for the fair comments about my country Indonesia..

I was student in KL about 2 years ago. First thing I noticed was, life in campus was so dull. No other life besides study...ok it's good and study is your duty as a student. But pls! life should be more colorfull...I just pitty them!

and then, the shocking fact is..."Malaysian Malay seems ruled by state to be a moslem"..hello guys! this against the basic human rights!!! although I'm moslem, I dont support this. Religion is your private relationship with your God....any creature has their independent to choose their believe... Lucky me as Indonesian, no one can disturb my private relationship my God..

I hope your government is willing to consider this law....to produce the more logic law...

I am proud to be Indonesian..with all the risk hehehe...

-peace-

Anonymous said...

Marina, your article is so bitiful. Thank you!

dina.. said...

i enjoy reading your article. it's beautifully written :)

I am sorry not asking your permission first to link it from my article. have a nice day :)

Anonymous said...

I La Galigo is NOT a javanesse play FYI. its Bugis, yes, the very same Bugis who became ruler of selangor and some other sultanate. Fierce sea farer, this race roam the sea like their own backyard. Too bad those in malaysia are no longer inherited their culture, nor can speak the tongue.

peace

Anonymous said...

FUCK YOU MALAY...!!!

GANJANG MALAY...!!!

Hilal Fahst Ramadhan said...

gosh,,,
im sory for the last anonimous..

I can feel what that fellow feel..
as Indonesian.. i feel the same thing..
piss on MALAYSIA!!

but please,, be positive..
ibu MiranaM give such a beautiful coment about our country..

and for some of Malaysia who still stay at they lovely home..
please... go outside... see your neighbor, we just a lot better then your thought..

we not only maids...
those maids are send to malaysia just because they don't have any job in Indonesia, so that much better we send a looser to a looser to... coz we know... you are lazy country,,,

anyway... peace...
GROW UP MALAYSIA!!


I'm proud to be INDONESIA!!
I wanna say shit on u Malaysia, but i can't..
every problem that happen between us, just because some mistake from our government...

pleace.... stay peace

Anonymous said...

nice post! iknew it! not every malay are arrogant, u should go out of your country and see us, the "maids" and compare how progressive and open minded we are

menoedh said...

I hope there are still a lot of open minded malaysian like u are..

Hope everyone stop screaming and start listening...

Please forgive the idiots part of indonesia who can only yell with rude words.

salam from indonesia..=)

xpressi said...

hi there...

im from indonesia, jakarta and im sorry for ganyang malaysia its only expression of rasa geram, for me malay or indonesia is "serumpun" its all only a misunderstanding here..

may i copy ur writing to my web?
thanks

MarinaM said...

Xpressi, silakan...

I just want to know how come so many Indonesians are still commenting on this post even though it is so old. I wrote this last January which means it's almost a year old! Where did you get the link from?

dimas said...

your blog is being linked in lot of other blogs own by indonesians.

ibu marinam, jangan dipikirkan soal komentar dari orang-orang yang asal itu ya, maklum sedang emosi. tapi deep down inside saya yakin masih banyak orang2 yang sadar dan peduli mengenai keadaan "pertentangan" yang ngga penting ini. cheers!

Nataprawira said...

Hi MM,

Thanks for the wonderful opinions about my country.

I do believe, person who wrote the rude languages on your comment, was not Indonesian.

As an Indonesian, bad or worst people saying about our country, it will make us more realised and try to take it as a part of our experiences to be more better in the future.

People changes and we'll always learn from it :)

Cheers,

Anonymous said...

thanks for the article. it is touching and reminds me again of how proud i am as an indonesian.

despite of my anger to malaysian whom i think are being overly insensitive in executing their tourism promotion, incident such this reminds me that the foremost casualties of the current issue are the nice people living in indonesia and malaysia... regular people who love to connect with their sorroudings and neighbors..

i'd really wish to see the day when indonesia and malaysia can create good things together again someday..

however, in the mean time, i'm still afraid of stepping my feet again in KL thou... i've had my bad experience on malaysian imigresen and have no intention to have it again too soon or ever..

until then, peace!

armadilloflexlm said...

Greeting,

I am a Malaysian,a Malay that have been thought that the Indonesian was our bloodline,or simply called Serumpun's

I never thought that the close bind that created since a long times ago seems to have a crackdown,seriously day by day..

I understand the situation,the tense situation between 2 neighboring countries,but,we should figured this out properly,not emotionally..

I must say that,it was the wrong-doing by the politicians,not by the civilian,the issues that for me was a mistake,a wrong judgement by the government based on their own political motives..

For me,the tense issues such as the Ambalat and Reog can be settled down by diplomacy,No need for shouting the hatred,I mean that we,Malaysian and Indonesian can share the informations,so that we Malaysian will work on something,write a letter or voice it out in political gathering,don't you see the possibilities?

I don't blame anybody in here,but let's us work together,both Malaysian and Indonesian,makes this world a better place for us to live,This cloudy days shouldn't stop us from being a happy and cherish 2 neighboring countries..

Thanks in advance MM,for letting my comment out from the KIV box..

Assalamualaikum..

tituk said...

Assalammualaikum

Terima kasih ibu, sebuah tulisan yang jujur melambangkan kejujuran penulisnya..

Untuk teman2 dari Indonesia yang memberi komentar di blog ini..
Plz said your comment with smart and elegant.

Tituk

plaque[at]surabayahackerlink[dot]org

rivi hamdani situmeang said...

Alhamdulilah, mungkin hanya ini yang pertama saya ucapkan kepada rekan-rekan semua, kita mungkin sudah tahu bahwa kita sering bertentangan dengan malaysia. Malaysia sebut kita indon, sementara kita menyebut mereka malingsia, dari sini nampak bahwa kita masih belum dewasa.
Kepada saudaraku, indon kalau diartikan versi bahasa lain itu budak, sementara budak dalam bahasa indonesia itu dianngap ucapan yg plg tidak pantas berbeda dengan malaysia, mereka biasa aja manggil anaknya dengan sebutan budak. Menurut versi saya alangkah bijaknya kalau kita mengambil sisi bijaknya karena bangsa yg bijak akan selalu berpikir bijak, walaupun kita dibilang budak tapi kita anggap aja kita memang budak yaitu budaknya rasulullah yang diarak menuju satu tujuan yaitu sang maha pencipta ALLAH Swt.
Nggap apa-apa malaysia itu sombong, biasanya bangsa yg tidak tahu agama dan tidak beradab akan merasa dirinyalah yang paling hebat, dirinya lah yg paling maju. Kita santai aja toh, masih banyak yg meski kita pikirkan yaitu terus memperjuangkan generasi muda kita agar bisa melihat bahwa negara kita memerlukan pemimpin yang bisa mendengarkan hati rakyatnya.
Kita nggak perlu merasa iri dengan malaysia karena apa yg mereka punya kita punya, mereka punya petronas kita punya monas, mereka punya pantai kita juga punya ribuan pantai yang terbentang di seantero indonesia raya. Kita terdiri dari berbagai macam ras, budaya dan bahasa namun kita bersatu kokoh menjalin persatuan yaitu indonesia tanpa memandang perbedaan.
Kita terdiri dari berbagai macam agama namun kita tetap akur dan damai, walaupun kita di kirim negara tetangga teroris spt noordin m.top untuk memecahkan indonesia namun kita yakin indonesia tidak akan terpecah, bahkan kabar bahagia datang aceh berdamai dengan indonesia raya. Di indonesia kita juga punya suku melayu, bahasanya bahasa melayu dan terkenal dengan kesopanan dan keramahannya.
Kita seharusnya bangga jadi bangsa indonesia yg tidak mau menindas bangsa lain di kandang sendiri, itu semua kita lakukan karena kita bukan bangsa banci yg hanya berani dikandang sendiri, bulu tangkis kita semakin baik, lomba sains antar dunia kita dapat emas, lomba musbaqoh tilawatilqur`an kita juara. pemimpin tidak ada ceritanya prnah melakukan sodomi.
Saya menulis ini karena betapa teririsnya hati saya, malaysia yg kita anggap negara yg beakhlakul karimah yg baik, ternyata adalah negara pecundang yg hanya berani dikandang sendiri. Negara yang selalu merasa lebih, mungkin kita semua sudah tahu bahwa orang yg merasalebih itulah yg sebenarnya mempunyai kekurangan. Pemimpim sejati aadalah pemimpin yg mau meminta maaf atas kesalahan rakyatnya, walaupun itu bukan kesalahannya,apakah itu pernahkita dengar ketika juri karate indonesia yang di undang secara resmi kemudian di pukuli tanpa sebab yg jelas. Mungkin seperti itulah pemimpin yg bijak dimata malaysia yg tidak sudi minta maaf, namun hati ini seakan terobati ketika mendengar jaritan hati ibu kandung sang pelatih, yaitu Allah maha tahu akan segala tindakan hambanya, mungkin anak saya sedang di uji, barangkali Allah sayang sama dia. Ibu yang bijaksana yg tidak menginginkan adanya balas dendam karena dia yakin betul dengan Tuhannya.. Kita tidak perlu getir akan perlakuan malaysia toh mereka itu bukan siapa-siapa. Paling-palimg mereka manggil PBB sebagai tameng untuk memperkuat mereka, indonesia tidak pernah takut keluar dari PBB toh kita juga sudah pernah keluar dari pbb gara-gara malaysia.
Jadi sekarang kita harus berpikir lebih realistis lagi bahwa kita tidak unggul dan juga tidak terbelakang, kita hidup dari hasil yg halal. Insya Allah karena secara resmi judi sudah mulai di gayang dari bumi indonesia. Kita harus bangga bahwa indonesia adalh negara yg memperjuangkan kemerdekaan sampai titik darah penghabisan, kita tidak mengemis kemana-mana untuk memperjuangkan kemerdekaan namun kita bersatu semua mulai dari sabang sampai merauke untuk meraih puncak kemerdekaan indonesia.
Kita harus selalu mengingat sejarah ingat pesan bapak soekarno jas merah (jangan sekali-kali melupakan sejarah). Sebelum anda lelah membaca curhat saya ini alngkah baiknya kita bernyanyi dulu

Dari sabang sampai merauke
Berjajar pulau-pulau
Sambung-menyambung menjadi satu
Itulah indonesia
Indonesia tanah airku kami berjanji padamu
Menjunjung tanah airku tanah airku Indonesia.

Maju tak gentar
Membela yang benar
Maju tak gentar
Mengusir penyerang
Maju tak gentar hakkita di serang
Maju tak gentar
Tentu kita menang
Bergerak, bergerak
Menerjang,menerjang
Bergerak menerjang terjang
Bergerak, bergerak
Menerjang,menerjang
Majulah, majulah menang


Indonesia tanah air beta
Pusaka abadi nan jaya,
Indonesia sejak dulu kala
Selalu dipuja-puja bangsa,
Di sana tempat lahir beta
Di buai dibesarkan bunda
Tempat berlindung di hari tua
sampai akhir menutup mata

Biasanya gundah hati akan hilang kalau kita mendengar musik, lagu dalam negeri kita alhamdulillah jadi tuan rumah dinegeri kita itu merupakan satu puncak prestasi, karena kita membuka diri terhadap dunia musik dari mana aja untuk masuk dalam industri musik indonesia. Bahkan dari negeri jiran seperti rivermaya dari thailand, 5566, F4,JASON M`RAZ, Jonas brother,winnie k, raihan, hijjaz, dan masih banyak lagi yg tidak bisa saya sebutin. Bangkit lah para musisi indonesia untuk terus berjuang membawa nama bangsa melalui musik,
For MALAYSIA thank untuk semua perlakuan kalian terhadab bangsa kami, walaupun mahasiswa indonesia sering jadi sasaan polisi disana, namun kami tetap menjaga warga negara asing yg sedang menuntut ilmu di negara kami, karena bangsa yg bijak akan senantiasa melindungi setiap warga negara yg tinggal di negara tersebut, untuk warga myanmar yg terdanpar di aceh semoga kalian sehat setelah sampai di myanmar nanti, kita tidak bisa bercerita lebih jauh karena terbentur oleh bahasa, tapi saya senang kita masih bisa sholat berjamah ditanah aceh yg lebih di kenal dengan serambi mekkah, saya melihat disanalah terletak satu keajaiban Allah, yg mana sewaktu tsunami melanda aceh banyak bangunan runtuh kecuali masjid-masjid yg masih berdiri kokoh dengan gagah mebentangkan sayap, seakan-akan bekata inilah aku rumah Tuhanmu, kemarilah engkau berlindung pasti akan selalu kulindungi, rindu saya,
Untuk saudara-saudaraku se iman di malaysia, sejauh mana kebencian mu terhadap kami, saya ragu kalau disana masih banyak muslimnya, aku nggak tahu lagi deh, tapi yg jelas yg saya tahu islam itu lembut, islam itu indah, islam itu tentram, islam itu damai, memelihara siapapun, tidak menindas, bahkan pad jaman rasul,islam mulai menghilangkan perbudakan,
Coba kalian bayangkan andaikan adi atau anak saudara anda yg di beri pekerjaan, kemudian gajinya tidak di bayar, tidak boleh keluar rumah bahkan sampai diperkosa, sampai dimana letak kesadaran anda, kalau memang pembantu tsb kurang kreatif, tidak bisa melakukan apa-apa kenapa tidak di suruh pulang saja.
Kalau memang hati anda tidak terbuka mungkin hati anda adalah batu, yg menyetujui kekerasan, yg membiarkan maksiat, dimana judi bukannya dilarang malah di beri peluang, tidakkah anda sadar bahwa hal yg berbau judi itu adalah haram, sekeras-keras orang indonesia tidak pernah ceritanya tidak membayar gaji pembantu, tidak menyiksa pembantu seperti di gosok,
Yah mungkin itulah ciri-ciri bangsa yang maju yang mendukung kekerasan warga peribumi kepada warga asing tanpa diadili. Aku akan senatiasa bangga dengan INDONESIA, disinilah hidupku, tumpah darahku, saudaraku sebangsa dan setanah air, kita tidak usah menuntut negara kita harus maju dari negara A dan B, kita harus menuntut bagaimana kita harus lebih maju lagi, tidak meninggalkan sholat, membayar zakat, dan mengasihi anak yatim dan fakir miskin, tidak seperti negara asing yg menyiksa warga asing yg miskin, walaupun warga asing tersebut bekerja untuknya.
Aku tidak membenci malaysia, bahkan aku sedikitpun tidak ada rasa benci terhadap malaysia, betapa bangganya negara islam walaupun kecil mampu menerbangkan angkasawannya, bangga jadi tetangga malaysia, eh malaysia hebat yah bisa berangkat keluar angkasa loh, namun rasa kebanggaan itu seakan-akan pudar oleh sikap para pelaku pemerintah dan rakyat malaysia yg sombong sok ingin menguasai bangsa lain, sok ingin di anggap lebih maju dengan yg lain, yah maklumlah.
Saya pribadi merasa prihatin dengan warga peribumi melayu disana yg semakin lama akan terus tersisih oleh bangsa lain yg tinggal disana, itu disebabkan karena apa, kesombongan, saya yakin orang luar akan lebih mendominasi dari pada suku melayu, kita lihat saja bahasa melayu yg sudah bagus ditambah-tambah sok-sok kebarat-baratan,
Kita santai aja kalau dibilang bahasa indonesia berasal dari bahasa melayu, seandainya mereka berbicara langsung dengan kita saya jamin 180 derajat mereka gak bakalan ngerti apa yg kita bilang, berarti ini pertanda jelas bahwa bahasa indonesia ya bahasa indonesia bukan bahasa melayu.
UNTUK INDONESIA JADILAH BANGSA SENDIRI YG TIDAK MENGHAKPATENKAN KARYA BUDAYA BANGSA LAIN, NAMUN TETAP MENGHARGAI, MENGHORMATI DAN TERUS RAMAH DAN SOPAN TERHADA SIAPAPUN YANG AKAN TINGGAL DIINDONESIA. KARENA DALAM AGAMA ISLAM TAMU ADALAH PEMBAWA REZEKI, BANTULAH IA, BERILAH IA MAKAN, KARENA KITA SEMUA SAMA YAITU MAKHLUK CIPTAAN TUHAN, JANGAN PERNAH MEMBEDA-BEDAKAN ANTARA RAS YG SATU DENGAN YG LAINNYA DAN AGAMA YG SATU DENGAN YG LAINNYA. JAYALAH INDONESIAKU TERSAYANG. I LOVE YOU.
UNTUK MALAYSIA JADILAH BANGSA SENDIRI YANG LEBIH BERADAB, YANG LEBIH MENJAGA KERAMAH TAMAHAN, TUNJUKKANLAH PADA DUNIA BAHWA MALAYSIA BISA MENCIPTAKAN KARYA SENI TANPA HARUS MENCIPLAK KARYA SENI ORANG LAIN, KALAU MUSIK INDONESIA LEBIH MENDOMINASI MUSIK KALIAN JANGAN LAH KALIAN INGIN MEMBOIKOT MUSIK BANGSA LAIN, HARUSNYA BERKARYALAH LEBIH BEBAS LAGI, JADILAH NEGARA YG MENCINTAI KEDAMAIAN BUKAN KEKERASAN.
Saya sangat menharapkan kritik dan saran anda semua, ke email saya
rivi_hamdani@ymail.com
makasih untuk semuanya. Indonesia keindahanmu takkan pernah terlupakan. Aku akan selalu maenjaga mu, YA Allah lindungilah bangsa kami Ya Allah. Bukakanlah hati manusia yg sudah keras seperti batu agar bisa melihat bahwa kesombongan adalh awal dari kehancuran, semoga Asma Mu akan senanntiasa berkumandang di seantero indonesia raya.