Saturday, December 29, 2007

Benazir and Destiny

UPDATE:

Anyone interested in Pakistani politics may be interested in this article by Tariq Ali in the London Book Review here.


ORIGINAL POST:


It's really sad that 2007 has to end on such a violent note with the death of Benazir Bhutto. But in many ways, any keen observer of Pakistan could see it coming. There was already a bomb which killed 139 people the day she arrived back in Karachi in October. She escaped then but it was a matter of time before they got her. So the daughter of one man and the sister of two men who all died violently also did the same. I have to wonder if it was worth it.

As also the daughter of a (former) head of government, I have watched Benazir with some fascination, even though I don't identify much with her. I read her book Daughter of the East when it came out and was struck by how little we knew about what was going on in Pakistan at the time and also by how totally devoted she was to her father, to a point I thought where she seemed to be blind to his weaknesses. Which is something I try not to be with my own.

I did get to meet Benazir once when she came on an official visit. She had brought her mother Begum Nusrat Bhutto ( according to some, so her mother wouldn't stage a coup while she was away) and her husband Asif Ali Zardari. I was invited along to the official dinner at Sri Perdana and beforehand we were given instructions by Protocol that Asif does not shake hands with women, therefore we, the few women who were invited, were not to stick our hands out hospitably.

So there I stood with mostly male government officers and assorted businessmen in the reception room in a semi-circle waiting for the Pakistani entourage to arrive. First to arrive was the Begum who proceeded to shake hands with everyone in the receiving line (obviously she isn't as strict as her son-in-law). But when she came to me, she ignored me completely!!! Both the men on either side of me turned to look at me puzzled at the obvious rudeness. She must have thought I was just someone's wife or some other unimportant underling.

It was only later when I joined my parents in the waiting room before dinner along with Benazir, her husband and mother, that any of them even realised who I was. Even then, I can't say that Benazir had much time for me. I guess I wasn't the one in the seat of power and didn't even look remotely interested in acquiring it. Which makes me, in Benazir's book, a nonentity.

I've seen descriptions of Benazir as haughty. I'm not sure if that's a word that can only be used for her. Certainly it suits her mother, in my limited experience. And later on, when I met Musharaff's wife,she seemed the same. So maybe it's just the Pakistani power style.

But...I have been to Pakistan once and I have many Pakistani friends, many of whom are Benazir supporters. And why wouldn't they be? Mostly they are the elite educated wealthy, same as Benazir and her family. They are friendly and hospitable to a fault. But apart from a few, I really wonder how far any of them will truly make changes in Pakistan that would benefit the most number of people.

I have a problem with a country that calls itself Islamic and yet has an adult literacy rate for men which is only 63% and an appalling 36% for females. These are 2004 figures which means during Benazir's tenure as President between 1988 and 1996, they were no better and probably even worse. It is a country where huge gaps between the rich and poor exist, where the Government spends 2% of its budget on education and 20% on defence, and where poor women are treated so inhumanely , subject to violence and even murder with the killers rarely ever brought to justice. Often these perpertrators and killers are the women's own family members. I've met Mukhtaran Mai, the poor illiterate woman who decided to speak out and demand justice after she was raped by men bent on exacting revenge for something her brother allegedly did. Hers is a story that makes you gasp in horror, even while you have to admire her courage in speaking out. Interestingly Mukhtaran believes that if both men and women are better educated in Pakistan, these appalling acts of violence would be lessened.

As much as I think it's terrible what has happened to Benazir, I have to wonder how much good she would have done for Pakistan had she won the elections. She might seem better than Musharaff to outsiders but it's a pretty thin selection of candidates nevertheless. Every single one of them is tainted in one way or another. And I don't know if her track record in governing is all that exemplary.

I'm not sure I buy all these explanations that Al-Qaeda is behind Benazir's assasination. It seems too convenient and a good way to get more money from the Americans for the so-called 'war on terrorism'. Is it just my imagination that things have gotten worse since Pakistan got so much money from the US to fight the Taliban, Al-Qaeda and assorted terrorists? Meantime, according to my friends in NGOs over there, the drug problem along the border with Afghanistan, among Afghan refugees and local Pakistanis, has increased and along with it, HIV/AIDS.



I feel sad for Benazir's kids who will surely be brought up to believe that Pakistani politics is their legacy and they have to exact revenge for their mother's death. The cycle goes on as it does in India and elsewhere. If entering politics is for the purpose of truly doing something about the people's problems in Pakistan, that would be something but if it's just about family name and legacy, I am fearful. Maybe they believe it's just destiny but can people continue to be so cavalier after so many deaths in one family?

(For a much more informative analysis on Pakistan and Benazir, do read Wajahat Ali's excellent piece here.)

41 comments:

Anonymous said...

"I read her book Daughter of the East when it came out and was struck by how little we knew about what was going on in Pakistan at the time and also by how totally devoted she was to her father, to a point I thought where she seemed to be blind to his weaknesses. Which is something I try not to be with my own."
this sentence really struck me. Hats off to you marina, for at least, you try to be a person of your own rather than a person some people wants you to be.

Anonymous said...

I feel for her kids.

a malaysian in riyadh said...

Sis Marina
This post is so captivating because you are brutally honest.
aMiR

Jay Antonio said...

I am very depressed by the unjustified murder of Benazir. I admired her since i was little. A Bright, Courages & Beautiful Woman. She has exceptiinal beauty & intelligence. Her Murder was obviously done by Coward Barbarians! I Hail Her as The Joan Of Arc of Today!

elyani said...

Kak Marina,

I agree with you, regardless of Bhutto many flaws during her political career, her death is tragic. In this world, there are so few Moslem women who have been able to rise to the level that Benazir Bhutto was able to, and whilst no-one is perfect at least she was prepared to return to Pakistan and fight for her beliefs, and I admire her for that. I wish her death will bring lasting peace to Pakistan and may her gentle soul rest in peace.

ps : May I have your permission to put your link in my blogroll? Terima kasih.

Anonymous said...

Dear Marina,
Thank you for this illuminating piece. It think it intelligent. Different take from all the other sob sisters -- how they grieve, what a loss etc, etc.
I share your view about how much difference benazir would have made any way.
And yes, violence seems to have spiralled ever since US got into the game.
And you know what, someone sure enough will come along and blame Islam for Pakistan's woes.
Salute, mdm
Serena

eddie_idris said...

Nahhh.... at last, there's someone who is of the same view as me on this Benazir issue. What happen to her is bad and I never condone such an act. But I believe we should refrain ourselves before "membabi buta" to puji her this and that and her supposedly heroism.

Kudos MM.

Anonymous said...

hi, Aunty.

you’re privileged to have had the chance to meet in person various political leaders and experience first-hand their warmth or snootiness. the vast majority of people who support or oppose [or are indifferent observers of] these political leaders however, don’t get that opportunity.

and in a country so close to war zones [Kashmir, Afghanistan, maybe soon-to-be Iran] and nuclear powers [India, China]; a country where many are poor and illiterate --- i don’t think their leader’s social etiquette is of great concern to them or a reflection of leadership.

despite her track record in social development while she was PM, i think many of Benazir’s supporters genuinely think she’d make a good come-back while many more perhaps just want change --- an end to the civilian-wannabe military government [just like Thailand. a support not so much for Thaksin but against a coup government].

… for the fed-up poor and illiterate, any promise of change is a welcomed promise. delivery, to be discussed later.

while it may be true that Benazir was just a regular rich brat whose political career benefited from the supported of the Pakistani upper-crust and foreign governments, i’m still proud of her as a person.

she hailed from a country that is culturally problematic [all the problems you mentioned in your posting re Pakistan are rooted in Tribal/distorted Islamic-Indic male chauvinism] yet she managed to contest for top leadership within her party and in national politics.

not only did she win elections, she was the first Muslim woman to be PM and the first woman to be PM of an Islamic country. and this she did in her 30s.

while many are mourning her death, or evaluating the possibility of her succeeding or failing in her career had she lived for the 2008 elections and beyond … here’s what i’m thinking:

1. Wanita UMNO will forever remain just a “wing”. let’s not waste time talking about the Puteri super-subordinate …
2. the head of Wanita UMNO will never be President of UMNO, therefore no woman can be PM in the UMNO-BN power order. funny that this is the same UMNO-BN that traditionally raves about moderate, progressive Islam as part of their unique worldview.
3. the head of Wanita UMNO will never contest for the seat of President even if she could because it’s not in UMNO’s culture to do so.
4. Malaysia will probably not see a PM in HIS 30s [maybe not even in his 40s] any time soon because Malaysian politics has become one where you subjugate yourself to your patron seniors for political survival.
5. … that Malaysia is actually just one vote away from a woman PM. and for those particular about creed, ya, a Muslim one. all it takes is for PKR to win 2/3s majority in the next General Elections [held before Anwar Ibrahim takes official post as President of the party].

ah, but we’re not interested in that entity, PKR. and we’re not Pakistan.

Al-Fatiha.



-JJ-

Anonymous said...

[just bit more tidy verison, please discard previous]



hi, Aunty.

you’re privileged to have had the chance to meet in person various political leaders and experience first-hand their warmth or snootiness.

the vast majority of people who support or oppose [or are indifferent observers of] these political leaders however, don’t get that opportunity.

and in a country so close to war zones [Kashmir, Afghanistan, maybe soon-to-be Iran] and nuclear powers [India, China]; a country where many are poor and illiterate --- i don’t think their leader’s social etiquette is of great concern to them or a reflection of leadership.

despite her track record in social development while she was PM, i think many of Benazir’s supporters genuinely think she’d make a good come-back while many more perhaps just want change --- an end to the civilian-wannabe military government [just like Thailand. a support not so much for Thaksin but against a coup government].

… for the fed-up poor and illiterate, any promise of change is a welcomed promise. delivery, to be discussed later.

while it may be true that Benazir was just a regular rich brat whose political career benefited from the support of the Pakistani upper-crust and foreign governments, i’m still proud of her as a person.

she hailed from a country that is culturally problematic [all the problems you mentioned in your posting re Pakistan are rooted in Tribal/distorted Islamic-Indic male chauvinism] yet she managed to contest for top leadership within her party and in national politics.

not only did she win elections, she was the first Muslim woman to be PM and the first woman to be PM of an Islamic country. and this she did in her 30s.

while many are mourning her death, or evaluating the possibility of her succeeding or failing in her career had she lived for the 2008 elections and beyond … here’s what i’m thinking:

1. Wanita UMNO will forever remain just a “wing”. let’s not waste time talking about the Puteri super-subordinate …

2. the head of Wanita UMNO will never be President of UMNO, therefore no woman can be PM in the UMNO-BN power order. funny that this is the same UMNO-BN that traditionally raves about moderate, progressive Islam as part of their unique worldview.

3. the head of Wanita UMNO will never contest for the seat of President even if she could because it’s not in UMNO’s culture to do so.

4. Malaysia will probably not see a PM in HIS 30s [maybe not even in his 40s] any time soon because Malaysian politics has become one where you subjugate yourself to your patron seniors for political survival.

5. … that Malaysia is actually just one vote away from a woman PM. and for those particular about creed, ya, a Muslim one. all it takes is for PKR to win 2/3s majority in the next General Elections [held before Anwar Ibrahim takes official post as President of the party].

ah, but we’re not interested in that entity PKR. and we’re not Pakistan.



-JJ-

Anonymous said...

'violence seems to have spiralled ever since US got into the game.'

Ignorance is bliss isn’t? Serena. Get your history books out and engaged those high gears in your brain before equating the US with every problem in this world.

Here’s a thought, learn more about Benazir father first, you will come across an assortment of interesting facts.

It saddens me greatly that the next generation is going to suffer due to the arrogant and the misguided pride of the yester generation.

Anonymous said...

Ignorance is bliss isn’t? Serena. Get your history books out and engaged those high gears in your brain before equating the US with every problem in this world.

Here’s a thought, learn more about Benazir father first, you will come across an assortment of interesting facts.

It saddens me greatly that the next generation (Pakistani) is going to suffer due to the arrogant and the misguided pride of the yester generation.

azak58 said...

Good piece Sis. I concur, brutally honest. I came across the only Paki in Malaysia willing to talk about Pakistan's politics. That was during Benazir's reign. His conversation, I can conclude, points to 1. Benazir only for the elite and 2. Benazir is an US ally.
My take on the sad incident is Benazir is a sacrificial lamb for a much bigger plan to get inroads into Pakistan.

Shaykhspeara Sha'ira said...

I reckon you are spot on in your description of the situation regarding Benazir and the future of Pakistan.

Nevertheless it is a truly sad event.

With regards to HIV AIDS, it is on a massive rise, and not only because of drugs but also increased migration to the gulf. I am planning research on it in the NWFP region however with the situation being as it is I might have to postpone it.

Anonymous said...

Blogs are really good because we can say what is in our minds even though we do not know each other and we may never have any other form of contact.

I am shocked that Ms. Benazir Bhutto died suddenly. Today's news on the tele showed an officer showing a film like report and he said that there was no bullets, no pellets. He said that what happenned was when somebody started shooting, she tried to duck. While doing so, she knocked against the glass window which hurt her badly and she died as a result from it. It was an assasination which did not kill her directly, sort of. Next thought is whether this officer is paid to speak the truth.

Marina, even in Malaysia, big people tend to show off. Even our immediate boss tends to ignore and just talk about what is in his mind, instead of really have a conversation. We all have this pride thing in us. No matter how humble we wish to be yet we have this self esteem which makes us want people to respect us. If I am you, I would be proud to a certain degree. The other day, the news reported that your Dad was questioned by the Anti Corruption Agency. If I am you, I would feel worried. I think you know what I mean. That is why you look beautiful and seductive in that photo with your Dad and you Mom after your Dad's operation. Don't worry. This is just one honest opinion from me. Photos can do such wonders. You said you dressed up for Hari Raya. I take it that you mean you prefer to be casual. People around you wish to see you living up to the image befitting you; one of it being the daughter of Tun Mahathir.

The Bhutto family is something like the Kennedy family. Benazir stood for democracy and it is democracy instead of Islamic extremism that many Pakistanis and foreigners want. Islamic extremism could not bear seeing an Islamic female politician standing tall, confident and talked with convictions. Compare Ms Benazir and Nawaz Sharif, the later is more gentle in his ways. Another factor contributing indirectly to her death is the undecisiveness of the Pakistanis regarding the kind of leader they want. Every leader is accused of something; be it corruption or whatever. So, Pakistan is not at peace with itself. That is why it is easy for an extemist group like Al Qaeda to take a foothold.

Whatever it is, Ms. Benazir left behind something good. Hopefully the Pakistanis can see that goodness and that is democracy for one and the liberalization of Muslim women to be all that they want to be. Like she. Highly educated. Lawyer by profession. Politician.

Anonymous said...

during her reign, she supported the taliban in Afghanistan.

Have Muslims women reached such a low status that this corrupted lady has become their symbol of pride?

SiextyEight said...

As a teenager, I wonder..what will happen to the world in the future?!People killing each other..People had become more cruel.. It make me feel afraid of what we call true life is..Just expressing my feeling so that people out there will know that bad things they did can influence us, the young generation..

juslo said...

i was down all day on friday, ever since i read the news early morning. i couldn't do my work the whole day... (i was fortunate enough to hear her speak once, when i studied overseas)

so i blogged the entire morning, n here's my own tribute to her...
Friday, December 28, 2007
2007: Year of Women –- Especially Courageous, Muslim Women
http://juslo.blogspot.com/2007/12/2007-year-of-women-especially.html
(if u don't mind...)

nstman said...

Benazir was as ambitious as she was cold and calculating. Amid the maelstrom of tears and the perfunctory and hypocritical messages of condolence and regrets from hypocritical world leaders, we must not forget who Benazir was. Strip her of the veneer of inscrutablity is a woman who still chose to hunker herself down in the feudal bunker where she was raised despite her gilt-edged education. Her rule was smothered by allegations, mostly proven, of corruption and cronyism. But such is the woolly headed politics of her countrymen that all her faults are buried amid the need for a figurehead to challenge the government of the day. If she had been alive, she might have been reelected. You can bet the same cycle of vengeance, croniysm and corruption would fester again. The chickens would surely have come home to roost again. Such is the fate of Pakistan. Pakistan is finished. It is a matter of time before it becomes a failed state. Right now it is only a basket case.

Anonymous said...

Nstman, I concur .Time to call a spade a spade or a bloody shovel in this scenario.

Anonymous said...

nstman:

"Her rule was smothered by allegations, mostly proven, of corruption and cronyism. But such is the woolly headed politics of her countrymen that all her faults are buried amid the need for a figurehead to challenge the government of the day."

this is not exclusive to Pakistan, no? surely you don't have to look so far to make that analysis.

... it's unexceptable the idea that Benazir supported her neighboring Taliban. especially since she's a woman, and dealing with a psychotic super-sexist regime. but it's a little bit more palatable the idea of other male-monarchy led Arab governments to deal financially with the Talibans. i like that. mm ... just like how it's bad, but less offensive than in the case of Benazir, that Musharraf's regime too is corrupt and is instrumental in the war on Iraq.

speaking of which ... how many of us even know where Malaysia "invests" its money? let's not be naive to think we don't give even the softest of sponshorship to foreign governments and ... how shall i say? --- Jack Sparrows.



-JJ-

Anonymous said...

Let us also not forget that she's the one who brought Osama Bin Laden from Sudan to Jallalabad (Afganistan) to be restored in power and ability to fight when she was in power as PM. Musharaff was her Army General who did this dirty work for her.

This woman was an enigma. Beautiful Muslim female who partied like hell in the West, led a Muslim nation and created Muslim terrorists.

How to explain this?

thegodfather said...

Politics is when a daughter cannot even trust her own mother. Shit, i don't want to be part of that. What a life!!

The Pash said...

http://drmaza.com/english_section/?p=18

Check out this site.., there's hope for us yet, we need more of these muftis...unless the Umno Secretary and his gang of wolves bring down Shahidan...and muffle this guy.

anon said...

Even though I agree with what u say here, I'm surprised that it's a total deviation from what would come out of you regarding these kinds of issues affecting the Muslim world, my dear...I think if Benazir had given you the time of day when you met, then you would have given us a different account today...much like the general gushing and lamenting of what a great stateswoman she was and what a loss to the Muslim world...betul tak?

Siti Khad said...

I agree with your writing. I hope Pakistan would not become another Iraq.

sheela said...

your writing really impress me alot. and i keep coming to your blog to read new article.

p/s: permission to link at your blog to my blog roll. thank you..

sheela

Nani Cheras KL said...

IMHO, electing her son as PPP President is a disaster in the making as Pakistan (or any country) need a politically matured and experience person to lead the country.

AlFatihah for Benazir.

Anonymous said...

Counting down to year 2008, Kak Marina, here's wishing you and our dearest Tun Dr Mahathir and Tun Dr Siti a very Happy New Year 2008!

As for my say on the cruel assassination of Benazir, as a human, she has the right to live.

Btw, can you pls let us know when's the birthday of your dearest parents pls? Thank you.

Best wishes,
Prisc

zzdoc said...

Marina,

Ha ha! Dont mean to trivialise the Bhutto family tragedy, but this surely is the best piece i've read on Benazir and Pakistan in recent days. You have managed to encapsulate exactly what is wrong with Pakistan - its leaders. And you were right about her family - her frightened looking 19yr old son has taken over leadership of her party, with dad in tow. Tsk tsk! Will they never learn.
Malaysia is also slowly but surely going the same way, the way we choose our leaders.

Hantu Laut said...

There are 29 comments here that agree with you and, I, maybe, the only odd one out.

I completely disagree with your conclusion on Benazir and her mother.It was obvious you feel slighted because you were snubbed by both mother and daughter.Don't forget you were only the PM's daughter, not a dignitary.Any head of state would have behaved the way she did, including many Malaysian politicans, their wives and their children,which I have seen and experienced myself.

Such behaviour is not exclusively confined to the Bhuttos. Many successful and powerful people are not exulted meeting those they presumed lesser than them.Although, I don't agree or subscribe to such impoliteness and vexatious behaviour, it is inevitably, something little we can do to comfort ourselves.

It is also undoubtedly true that smart and successful people are usually arrogant and aloft and those who are not, would be an exception.

Anonymous said...

There are few things make you extra special.. you’re so honest and brave to voice out what you think and observe. :)

Love you and wish you and the whole family HAPPIEST NEW YEAR 2008!

Anonymous said...

Yes, go back to history.It is ironic that taliban and mujehideens were creation of Pakistan intelligent agency with the help of CIA to fight soviet influence, after the Cold war, they morphed into extreme groups,they now bite the hands that feed them. Suicide bombing is a new phenomenon in Pakistan,not sure where the perverted ideology imported from, during Benazir Bhutto rule as PM, this was unheard of.

They can blame musharaff,blame US, blame militants,blame other factions but sadly they cannot offer solution to the problems.Pakistan really need a strong leadership.

Mohani said...

Her feminist contributions are debatable (see this article entitled 'No Better than a Man?' in which its alleged that she was someone who was privileged due to her family's political legacy and who used the gender card to gain sympathy while providing no greater equality for Pakistan's women), but as Shanaz Bukahri the president of the Progressive Women's Association tearfully said, by just being there on the forefront, she was a symbol and hope for all women, particularly Muslim women in the world. She was a Mother (not only symbolically. She leaves 3 children, of which the oldest is no older than 19 years old).

So tragic.

mH71 said...

Happy New Year Datin,

But a not so happy posting to be discussed ie. assasination of Benazir Bhutto.

To me, everyone everybody every single person in Pakistan knew it was coming. Perhaps inevitable. One of her aides even proclaimed that she had martyred (is that how u spell it?) on the day of her demise.

But life has to go on and without any surprise her son a 19 year old has been proclaimed as her successor in her political party. Mmmm.. i do wonder is there any lesson to be learnt especially for our country? Or perhaps we should just take the news in passing like any other news around the world.

P/S sometimes i really feel we are over-extending ourselves when welcoming foreign dignitaries & their entourage to our country.

Whatever..

Kasim said...

Hi Marina, this is Jennifer McKay's friend, Kasim (we met in KL for dinner...) Your analysis is spot-on. Just a couple of minor correction (for the purposes of historical accuracy). Benazir was never President, she was PM. Also, she was not PM continuously from 1988 to 1996, which is what your blog implies.

Bugger said...

My deepest condolences to the family members.May she rest in peace and may our heart be lifted from sadness.

MarinaM said...

Dear folks, sorry for the late response to comments but my Streamyx has been down for days at home so couldn't do much. But thanks for all comments.

Those who asked if they could link this blog on their blogroll, please do, I would be honoured.

Norzie, I didn't publish your comment because the article you cited is exactly the same one I already put a link to at the end of my post. Thanks anyway.

Kassim, welcome to the blogosphere and thanks for the corrections.

Happy New Year all!

khengsiong said...

"I have to wonder how much good she would have done for Pakistan had she won the elections. She might seem better than Musharaff to outsiders but it's a pretty thin selection of candidates nevertheless. Every single one of them is tainted in one way or another."

The question is not whether Benazir could save Pakistan, had she escaped the assassination. The important thing is Pakistan should have rule of law, democracy, and justice. Benazir's death is certainly a blow to all these...

Anonymous said...

Talking about providing greater equality for pakistani women,some were disappointed of Benazir Bhutto inactions.Under hudud ordinance Sharia law, raped women victims are sent to jail unless they can produce 4 witnesses to the assault.

Coming back to the tragic incident, she knew about the high risk involved and paid the price,one failed attempt for her,also three failed attempts on musharraf life.

Srikanth Siva said...

Excellent piece!

Xandra Jenn said...

We were sad for the tragedy happened to the late Benazir Bhutto. All TVs in Europe were only showing her after her assasination. At least she was one brave lady. We sure need one female such as her in this world.

Happy New Year!