Hi folks, been another of those weeks where I don't get enough time in front of the computer to blog about anything worthwhile. But I have to say that I've been so appalled by the stuff being said about Indonesian domestic workers just because our Government finally wants to treat them like any other workers by giving them a day off. Honestly, why do so many people make it seem as if we are doing them a favour by giving them a job, when we just can't cope without them? It's mutual need and dependency.
And what is this business about taking off from the domestic worker's salary whatever payments people make to the agent? If you employ a headhunter to find an employee for you, their fees can be up to six times the salary of the employee you take on! You don't take it off the employee because that's the fee you pay for the service. Getting the domestic worker to work for free is known as slavery, that's all. And yet there are all these people who actually think that's OK.
If the Indonesians are incensed, even if it's just for their elections, we should understand. What if it were our people who were being treated like that overseas? Wouldn't we care? We're now trying to appease the Indonesians by saying that not all of us treat our domestics badly. But anyone would get the opposite impression just by reading the papers every day, especially when we have so-called leaders spouting off in the most vile way about foreigners in our midst.
There are some people who are suggesting that domestic workers should only be allowed to work for families of the same religion as them. As if this necessarily makes them less vulnerable to abuse! I have met any number of domestic workers who have had the misfortune to work for so-called 'religious' people who simply 'forget' to pay their salaries, sometimes up to two years at a time, or just ignore requests by their worker to send money home to their families for them. Or who promise to get them all the permits to work here but then don't, leaving their worker totally dependent on them, afraid to go anywhere and unable to complain to anyone. No physical abuse no doubt, but still slavery.
The answer is not to look at other countries for domestic workers either. We will eventually have to reduce our dependency on domestic workers while at the same time improving working conditions for all women, including better childcare facilities and flexible hours.
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The shocker of the week was of course the deaths of Farrah Fawcett and Michael Jackson. The passing of the former was overwhelmingly overshadowed by the latter's but here's one tribute worth reading.
I'm sure you've read every single tribute to Michael Jackson there is out there. For me, what was most special about him was his dancing, which I rank alongside Fred Astaire, Gene Kelly and the great tap dancer Gregory Hines. Here's my favourite music video by Michael which I like better than Thriller. Nobody makes videos like this anymore with a storyline, a lot of detail, great costumes and of course, just spectacular dancing. Enjoy!
RIP Farrah and Michael!
Sunday, June 28, 2009
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7 comments:
Yes Puan,
We have to treat all people with respect and dignity as human beings.
And rest in peace, Farrah and Michael.
Adam
Yes Rest in Peace Farrah and Michael..
Hi MM,
I share the same opinion.
we should treat everyone equally, whoever they are.
My maid "ran away" 2 years ago, but I don't blame her. the whole labour system has been setup on such a unfriendly basis that these things are bound to happen.
I find it really hypocritical when so many people were opposing the suggestion of giving Indonesian maids "a day off every week".
some said they will become bad, pick up bad behaviours, mix with bad people and so on.
Since when the employers are also their moral guardians?
The worse, these people most likely went to church, masjid, temple, and probably vowed to promote love, compassion and justice.
I would really like to see their responses if their employers cancel their annual leaves and make them work every weekend.
cheers
Salam Kak Marina,
I beginning to feel that some people are just putting religion into every other thing in life; without thought or reflection of it relevance to the entire issue.
My take on the issue
Edward
Salam,
I agree with the govt decision to give these foreign maid a day off. What they do in their spare time is up to them. Our problem mainly is that when we pay peanuts of course we will get monkeys. But then again, the employers need to have certain protection as well which is severely lacking in Malaysia.
I am afraid of mistreating another human being and taking advantage of a person in need, therefore, i've decided not to have a a maid at home. The house will always be in total mayhem, the kids will have to be sent to a day care, my daily schedule revolves around making sure the kids are taken care first and foremost. But hey, i survive.
Here's a good article on the domestic worker issue by Tan Siok Choo in The Sun today, http://www.sun2surf.com/article.cfm?id=35118
What discordant personalities they both were i.e Farah and Michael.
One was a pretty face only. The other was a music genius. His dancing was only a part of his genius, Marina. His inventions are incomparable. Even feminism should recognize the acme of talent, when it is due.
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